You know, i'm no professional but I can tell you what my parents allow me to do, seeing i'm still a teenager. First of all, no driving until 6 months after a seizure! For me thats huge seeing I just was able to get my lincenes. As far as playing on her own...........Well thats up to you. Personally, keep an eye on her for a while until things seem to be under control. As far as fairground rides, well, thats something i'd avoid for a while, (sorry kid) sometimes, and until you actually know, seizures can be induced with flashing lights, such as some video games, or othertimes they can be induced by.............Well nothing. They just happen. As far as chocking on her tongue, it is possible, but seeing how i'm the one who has the seizures, i'm not sure what the correct approach is to that. Another big thing for these questions, see a doctor. Even a family physician will do. Hopefully this helps some.