As some of ya know me and my boyfreind
have been together for three yrs. Well
im having huge problems with him... All
week weve been arguing bc all he wants is
sex and I dont. Then about tuesday or
wed I was on the phone with my cuz bc hes
ordering me a laptop and he got all mad
and left well my mom closed the door bc he
left it open and I guess he decided not to
leave so he tries to come back in and the
doors locked and he gets all mad. He
stars yelling at me and my mom goes no I
closed it well he left the door half open
again and I go can u close the door? He
gets up and leaves making a big scene in
front of my mom. Ok so the next day I
was mad hten I finnally got over it bc he
begs and begs everytime 4 me to give him
one more chance. O yesterday I told him
he had to give his dad a u.A (his dads a
cop) and he said no and I got mad bc if
wont that must mean he's hiding something
rite? And today he tried hitting me at
lunch well he wont but what if he did
i dont know what to do
sorry if it dosent make sense but im
really mad rite now if u dont understand
something just ask me and i'll explain it
ok
belinda
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 09-17-04 17:42pm
Be careful with him! Don't let him start
hitting or abusing you. The minute he
does, .G.E.T .O.U.T!!!
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 09-17-04 17:46pm
Sounds to me like he's a real jerk off.
You deserve better then that...I'm not
gonna tell you to dump him or anything.
But talk to him, tell him that if things
dont change then its gonna be over. You
shouldnt have to put up with his stupidity
and immaturity.
He tried to hit you? Girl if he ever
hits you dump his sorry ass right then and
there! Trust me, you do not wanna be
involved in that!
Well, good luck! And i'm sorry to hear
about all this...
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kkmauricio
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2004 Posts: 321 Location: nm
Posted: 09-17-04 18:42pm
Hes a jerk !! Dont ever let any guy hit
you!! O ye what a u.A?
Urine analysis... Drug test. Speaking
of... Why does he need to give his dad a
u.A.?
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sweetangel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2004 Posts: 305 Location: Fort Stockton Texas
Posted: 09-18-04 12:39pm
Bc he's done alot of drugs and his dad
wants him to and I actually do especially
since we have sex what if I get preggy and
something can go wrong and his mom dosent
live w/him well hardly even talks to him I
mean she'll come to town and tell every1
dont tell cody im here. Well anyway she
told him not to and all this stuff but the
only reasson is bc she dosent want for him
to live with her if he gets kicked out of
the house. U mite not understand y I
want the u.A but if u were in my
sittiation and knew all the things that
went along with it u would understand!!!..
O and girls last nite me and a cople of
friends were at he football game and
afterwards went riding around well he was
following me all over town and I went
home around 12 and around 1 he called me
wanting to know where the hell my car was
well my mom goes to church every friday
nite from 12-1am and he kept going by my
house and calling o my gosh I swear he
needs help!!!!!!!!!!
The ying is I love him so much but I know
no 1 in the world deserves to be treated
like that. I wouldnt even wish this on my
worst enemy..
I
just wish I knew what to do any help
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 09-18-04 13:41pm
You really dont deserve to have to be
treated like that. I know it may hurt
now, but maybe breaking up with him is the
right thing to do. It gonna hurt like
crazy, but if you stick it out you wont
regret it in the end.
Think about this...
Is he the type of person you want to spend
the rest of your life with?
Is he the kind of father figure you would
want for y'alls kids later in life?
Do you trust him to be faithful in your
relationship or if y'all got married?
Would you ever trust him alone with y'alls
kids?
Would he ever hit you or the kids?
All of these things are things you wanna
think about. If he cant meet up to the
standards of what marriage would be like,
then dont even bother dating him.
Because it isnt going to go anywhere but
downhill.
I hope this helps. Good luck girly!
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sweetangel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2004 Posts: 305 Location: Fort Stockton Texas
Update Posted: 09-20-04 17:12pm
Girls all this weekend has been hell for
me!!!!!! First friday I already told
yall about that well after the football
game me and a couple af riends went
riding around and we kept seeing him so I
took all of them home and I just went home
this was bout 12 well around 1 he calls
wanting to know about my car
wait............. I think I already
mentioned this
ok sat my friends and I went riding around
and to a dance I never saw him that was
good
sun..... My friend took me an invitation
for her 15nera so I told my other friend
to call him so I could give it to him well
he called but I didnt hear the phone bc I
was washing my car. Well he goes by the
car wash (i dont know how he knew I was
there) well he wnt rite next to me to see
who I was with and when he did he just
left and later I saw him at a stop lite
and I told him pull over and I gave him
the invitation and I asked him are u still
gonna be in it and he said yes I go ok.
Well he left bc I was talking to my other
friend that pulled over w/me and all of a
sudden came back and was yelling at me
over something and I go what the hell are
u talking about he goes are u gonna be
like this rite after we break up meaning
am I gonna hook up w/other ppl and I go no
ididnt so he left well later we were going
down a street and I saw him turn after me
and I go im gonna turn and if he turns
then hes following me and he did and well
he was w/one of his friends long story
short he punched my car so I have a big
dent in it and I told his friend u need to
come get him now so I called his dad and
hes paying for the repairs
then last nite I got in a big argument
w/my parents over the whole
thing!!!!!!!!!!!
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
Posted: 09-20-04 18:07pm
I think to be honest you have already made
your mind up!!
I
just wish I knew what to do any help