to Woman Who May Have Went Threw the Same Situation Posted: 09-17-04 16:17pm
Hey ladies...I was curious as to weither
or not any of you have been given a wrong
due date? Or your baby's measurement's
were off?? My problem is....I know for a
fact without a doubt on my dates!!! Me
and my partner were together everyday the
4th-9th of may (without protection and he
ejaculated in me several times) . What's
getting me confused is the fact that my
due date seems off by a week..Give or take
a few day's. According to the due date if
I count back that put's my conception
date around the 18th!!!! I have expressed
my concern to the doctor and he has said
that the measurement's of the baby are
what they go by now instead of my period??
He also said I would have had to
concieved around the 18th, but the last
time we slept together was the 9th?? I am
getting so angry with him because he
dosen't seem to believe me when I tell him
that I know my dates!!! I asked him if
the baby couldn't just be a little smaller
for week's pregnant and he said all babys
grow the same in the first tri-mester, has
anyone else had problems with due date or
ultrasound being off by a week or so??
Please any advice would be helpful.
Thanks.....Also if there are any woman who
are due around the first of february and
know your dates that would help also!!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4101 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 09-18-04 00:52am
Well my due date hasnt been changes but my
conception date has been 3 times.
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Girrly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2004 Posts: 113 Location: canada
Posted: 09-18-04 09:03am
Hey,
off by 9 days is alot. I was going to
say the sperm can live in you for up to 5
days but i've never heard 9. My first
little girl was due febuary 2nd and my
date of conception was the 10th of may.
If you know for a fact that you didn't
have sex after the 9th then obviously any
test or what the dr says isn't going to
sound right to you. If you get another
ultrasound see what they say I wouldn't be
worried. Trying to fit it all together
to have it make sense maybe. The Dr. Is
right they do go by the ultrasound and not
the first day of your last period. Or
else my first little girl would have been
due on the 31st of january instead it was
the 2nd of febuary. If I were you i'd
just be happy I was pregnant and the baby
is healthy. Sorry I couldn't help out
too much. Pregnancy is still a mystery
no doctor can tell you exactly what causes
what and why. I'm sure there are
theories out there but none of them set in
stone.
Good luck :d
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dlisiouss
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jul 2004 Posts: 107 Location: PA
Posted: 09-22-04 12:37pm
Did u know u can concieve even 5 days
after having sex? He could be right and
although you know the days u had sex does
not mean you concieved that day.
Is it possible for ultrasounds to be off
by a whole week or more? I am just
concerned because I am 4 months pregnant
and according to my ultrasound I conceived
on june 26th, but on the 18th me and my
boyfriend were split and I had sex with
another guy so i'm scared my ultrasound
could have been off by 8 days is that
possible? I dont know what I would do if
the baby isn't my boyfriends!
