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Q: Not Meagan But Still
asked by: tweety12986 on September 17th, 2004
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Hi my name is betty i'm meagans friend tha pregnant one she talks about sometimes.... Yea I have never posted but I read the posts most of the time but now I have finally come to a cross roads and I dunno which way to turn or what to do, ok so I have been with the father of my baby (a girl 7months by the way) for a little less then four years. Dating wise but we have been married about two months, but three days after we got married he left, he's in the army. Ok well thats not the problem Rolling Eyes the problem is in like december(that I knew of at the time) of this year he started cheating, with this ugly ugly girl named jasmine and if I was to see her today I would crack her teeth, but anyway this lasted about two months till I finally got fed up and we broke up for about 3 days. But on meagans birthday we got back together and he swore never again. He supposedly told me everything that happened and I was hurt but ok we moved on. But as time progressed she was still around in feb. I got pregnant but we didn't know till the end of march. Thats when he finally let this girl go. But I didn't wanna be with him anymore cuz I didn't trust him. But i;m stupid and we got back together a few months later, meagan and I found out about a time when billy (my hubby) and michael went to this super sluts (jennifer's) house but there was a lot of lies etc. Involved with that too.... Stayed together... Down the line like every two months or so I would find out new things that happend with jasmine but I would let it go because it was the past and blah blah blah ok now to my problem today....I just found out by complete accident yesterday that there was a whole nother girl karina (whom I thought was my friend by the way) that he messed around with. So now here I am I dunno what to do, supposedly he never had "sex" with any of these girls but at what point and I supposed to believe that.... And what should I do because its not as easy as I don't want to be with you anymore there's alot of other issues. Everyone keeps telling me that I should be mad cuz it happened along time ago but I just found out... And what else is there that I will find out months from now.... medical question that I thought about it last night and he has been talkin to other girls for at least 75% of our relationship. From the very doing it beginnning!!!! But what am I supposed to do now.... Any ideas on the topic would be great.... Thanks.....
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newlife
replied on September 17th, 2004
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We'll first, welcome and tell meagan hey. But anyway, I think that you should confront him wih this. And instead of letting it go, and just getting back together, try to make yourself whole. I mean tell him, that you want to know everything, about everyone that he has ad dealings with during your relationship. That way, if you should decide to get back with him for a probationary period, and you find something else out that happened in the past, you will know that it is not just in the past. It is in the pesent, because when asked to tell you everything, he held back.
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cherriegurl
replied on September 17th, 2004
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Welcome and I think u should confront him too. When does he come back?
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BbyBlu0602
replied on September 17th, 2004
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I know a lot of people are going to disagree with me on this one, but honestly if it were me I would confront him about it and let him know that you know the truth, but at the same time I wouldn't take him back. The same thing happened to me with ethan's dad. It took me a while and a lot of "getting back togethers" before I realized that I didn't want someone in ethan's life who would hurt him like that and even tho it is possible for some people to change, I always feel that once a cheater...Always a cheater. There would continue to be trust issues there. There will always be an emotional attachment no matter what, but just because someone is the father of a baby doesn't make them a daddy. Anyone can father a child, but it takes a real man to step up and be a daddy and take care of mama and baby. Then again, I don't know him so he could make a complete turn around and be the best husband in the world. No matter what tho, put the best interests of your children first. Maybe i'm just babbling and being stupid..Lol. I dunno, so i'll just leave it at that.
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Mommy4Amari
replied on September 17th, 2004
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Welcome betty! Wink

i was kinda in the same situation as you but only 4 months after I gave birth to my daughter, he confronts me and tell me that he was sleeping with another girl. At that point I had to let him go. Now despite what he did, we are the best of friends. We do everything together! The only advice I can give you is either leave him or confront him and work things out. I hope everything works out for the better!
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LaurensEntourage
replied on September 18th, 2004
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Once a cheater always a cheater.
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Michelle1337
replied on September 18th, 2004
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I agree, once a cheater always a cheater. And I have plenty of gay boyfriend cheating stories.
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