I know how you all feel about the dads doing that, my son is going to be 6 in dec and his dad has not seen him since he was 2 months old and that was in a court room for child support which I have never seen to this day. But it get harder when you kids start talking about thre fathers like they know them and see them all the time, thats when it really hurts, because you just dont know what to say.