If only spanish men would stop with their macho caca. Stop making excuses for him. I grew up in a spanish home and spanish women spoil there male children, and tend to forgive them easer then there daughters. He needs to get over it. My dad was a x-con served 20 years. He was very hateful, no affection what so ever, my mom told us he didnt want us growing up like health forum, and my mom did nothing. Stayed with him no matter what he did. I dont hate and didnt hate him, I dont hate her for staying with him. When my dad go sick were there for him and when he past away 2 years ago we were all there, and I would do anything for my moms... So...Stop making excuse for his behaveior towards his mom, you stay in touch with her, let her know how things are going, dont keep her from her grandchildren if she have some..At least she'll have that....Thats whats wrong with people today....People just cant get over it.