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Q: Anyone Have Any Suggestions? Please Help!! Erectial Dysfunct

asked by: HJD622 on September 16th, 2004

New User

This is the sencone time I have posted something inhopes ill get some sort of response. Point blank. My bf cant keep his penis hard when we are about to have sex, but its hard all the time other wise, the mall, movies, blockbuster ect.... Can he have ed atthe age of 21? He thinks its psychologiacal bc hes a virgin and is nervous and thinks to much about it when its about to happen? Any suggestions on how to "spring it on him" or get himto relax? And mybe he needs viagra, but at such a young age? Any suggestions or comments? Anything will help at this point! We are going insaine!! Thanks alot!!! Embarassed

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john768

replied on October 1st, 2004

New User

No he doesnt need viagra...Since he is a virgin, its the anxiety of him being in that situation which is causing the dysfunction...Jut slow it down...If your serious with him then you have all the time in the world...Otherwise if your hormones are too impatient than find someone suitable to fulfill your needs....

bully

replied on October 21st, 2004

New User

It is anxiety, maybe he needs to engage in foreplay and then just proceede but just let him think you will just fool around.If he has spontaneous erections the he doesn't need any help.

BeckLyn

replied on November 4th, 2004

Experienced User

You don't need to answer this in case it incriminates, but drugs can cause, and alcohol. So if you're trying to have sex when he's high or drunk, this could be a lot of the problem. Maybe he is on some kind of meds that can cause this too. That is also very poss.

Sweety1

replied on November 5th, 2004

New User

Maybe try talking to him about what he's thinking at the time you are about to have intercourse and he goes soft. There can be many things that he may be thinking at the time to make him lose his erection. Worrying about losing the erection or getting you pregnant are a couple of things that may cause him to get soft.

I've had to deal with this sort of thing as well.

If he's hard all the time other than that, he certainly does not need viagra.

doola

replied on November 7th, 2004

New User

Maybe try a little oral sex on him since you are probaly the more experience one. That are to get the blood flowing.

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