I know that everyone says to never date a co-worker, but I ignored the rule and did it anyway. Now out of the blue the girl I was seeing has decided that she just wants to be friends. I may also mention that she's a single-mom, two kids, and claims that she doesn't have time for anything right now as her excuse...I still don't buy that and belive that she only told me that to say it in a nice way. I also understand that single-moms have stressful lives so I hope nobody is judegmental with that coment.

I got really emotionall attached to her and i'm having a hard time letting go even though I know that's what I have to do. It's very hard seeing her everyday and I don't think that my anxiety is ever going to go away. My mind is racing with thoughts and negative feelings even though we are on good terms. I know in my heart that it's going to be hard to be friends or atleast nice to each other at work.

Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you handle it, or what kind of advice can anyone give me in my situation...? I know that I wrote a check that my *** can't cash but I recognize and understand my mistake.



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