Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 711 Location: Springfield,Illinois
I Got a Dilema And a Question For U All! Posted: 09-15-04 20:01pm
Just a question how often do u think a
teen mother should go out and have a good
time? One day a week? One day everyother
week? Or wat?? I went out last weekend
and I stay the nite at a friends and I
feel bad b/c a friend of mines birthday is
not this weekend but the following and
wants me to come w/ her and some other ppl
to a hotel she is renting and just hang
out and possibly just crash there but idk
if I should or not maybe its too soon
after the last time? Wat do u guys think?
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 09-15-04 20:04pm
I think that if you can find a good
babysitter (like rivers grandparents or
somthing) that you should do it. Its not
like youre going out everyday, and its
healthy to spend time with your friends
every once in a while
Huni, you are with river almost all the
time. Go have a good time. One night a
week or every other week is alright as
long as river is with your mom or
something lile that where you know he's
being cared for!
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lee25
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
Well, when I used to go out, I would ask
my mom to watch amari for me.
I went out like every weekend! Like gaby
said just look for a good babysitter to
watch river.
You are a bad mother and i'm taking river
away!
love,
black!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 09-15-04 21:31pm
Aww...You are doing just fine. Just go
out in moderation, I would say once a week
as long as you have a good babysitter you
can count on. If you start doing it
almost every night, then I would start to
get worried.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 09-16-04 06:31am
Awww hun u need som time away!! (lol I
just had a post kinda like this also) but
ur always wit river and ur a great mom and
its okay if u go out a few times... Ur
still there for him! Just go out, have
fun and u'll feel a whole lot better!
Shauna
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 09-16-04 09:05am
Personally, I think once a month is
sufficient. However, I don't find going
out ever other weekend to be bad. Have a
good time!
~jennifer~
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 09-16-04 11:49am
I wouldn't put a set time on it. I'd say
go out when you feel like it or when its
necessary for example although you're a
mom your also a daughter/sister/friend so
you have to be there for the other people
who need you & do things like go out
for your friends birthdays. Never feel
bad because you're not! You need a bit of
fun too my sweetie
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 09-16-04 11:57am
First off jennifer one response is
sufficient. And secondly. I try to go
out with friends when sean is sleeping,
when he can be with me, etc. But when I
do just need time alone, larry and I
together, we try to do that every month.
And I am not saying we dont go out
everynight and run to the gas station or
something, but I am saying we leave and
grandma watches sean and we go to dinner
and a movie. Like saturday, we have not
done something like that since valentines
day, so we are way overdue. Good luck,
just dont get to carried away!!
