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Q: Frustrated
asked by: cherriegurl on September 15th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
I have a cousin (also my bestfriend) she is 19 and has a 1 yr old son curtis. (so cute) well when she was preggers with him her boyfriend wanted her to get an abortion. She didnt obviously. But last month we found out she is preggers again and she told me before anyone because she knew if I knew there would be no way she would get talked into an abortion by her boyfriend. Well now she is like 5 months preggers and her boyfriend wont let her tell any one. Like her mom or even go to the doc. I told her to figure it out and get some common sence and go to a doc without him knowing but it dosent work. He wants her to get and abortion or something. Im like holy moly if u didnt want another baby that doing it bad u shouldnt have been doing the hibbity dibbity. Sorry just frustrated lol.
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IDABABY
replied on September 15th, 2004
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Im sorry..But those type of people make me sick. Sorry had to say it. If they dont want anymore chidlren there is enough options out there for birth control, I know ppl dont like condoms..But there are so many things out there. Grrr!!! I think her boyfriend is retarded and that she needs to leave him because he is no good for her. They arent married they are just boyfriend and girlfriend..And if I was her I would be telling the whole damn world. They need to be more responsible!
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cherriegurl
replied on September 15th, 2004
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Dont say sorry they make me sick too. I couldnt imagine having such low self esteem that I couldnt tell my boyfriend to go to h e l l I just want to take him aside and beat the caca out of him. Oh ya to add to it he is that dad of the 1 yr old too and he has never I repeat never change a diaper
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IDABABY
replied on September 15th, 2004
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She needs to leave him asap. I cant imagine having another baby with an assholeee like that! Grr, that makes me so mad that she won't leave him. So sad because of the 1 yr old son, and the new one on the way. Im so pissed off and dont even know the girl!! Ahhh! If she loves her son...At all she would leave him...No one deserves to have a nasty asss father like that. You should talk with her...Or get her into some type of help.
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cherriegurl
replied on September 15th, 2004
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Thank u for ur reply and ur help
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lee25
replied on September 15th, 2004
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There really nothing you could, unless she stands up for herself. She waiting too long it might be too late to do anything about it. In some states it illega to do anythign after x amount of months. So all she is doing is increasing the chance of not knowing if she is having a healthy baby or not. Maybe she's scared that her byfriend would leave her, but what is meant to happen will happen and it took both of them to do the deed. She didn't get pregnant on her own. He should of thought about it before he screwed her without using anything. Tell her that her resposibility right now is to her baby not her man. Tell her to think about the love she has for her first child, tell her it would be twice the love. Tell her that the love her children will have for her is unconditional, her boyfriend might not be there in the future. But those kids will, she doesn't need him to survive, and if he left her it wouldn't be the end of the world. How many young guys and older men leave after finding out that there is a child on the way. She made a grown up decision to not protect herself now she must deal with the consequences. It may sound harsh but it is true. If they didn't want another child right now there were many things that she could use.

Brenda

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Mommy4Amari
replied on September 15th, 2004
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If I was her, I would just leave him. He f*cks her raw, she gets pregnant, and he wants her to have an abortion? He acts like abortion is a birth control and it shouldn't be used that way. She needs to just do what is right and go to the doctor for her and the baby's sake. Who gives a f*ck what he say... Rolling Eyes
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nippz
replied on September 15th, 2004
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Amen ciara ;p
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Mommy4Amari
replied on September 15th, 2004
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:d Wink
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