Hi. My husband and I are considering
having him undergo a vasectomy. I have
lupus (sle with nephritis) and children
are out of the question, but I can still
get pregnant (not what we want).
Has anybody had a vasectomy, what should
he expect, and where can I get more info
on it?
Thanks.
Clarebear
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 09-15-04 10:04am
Your doctor or planned parenthood will be
able to help. I understand it is a very
quick and simple operation, and does not
require a hospital overnight or anything.
My partner had it done before I met him --
and I can confirm that there does not seem
to be any negative impact on sexual
function at all!!! :d . It is wonderful
not having to worry about getting pregnant
at all, not having to use bc is great.
But I think you do need to use other
protection for a few months after the
operation, and then they test the semen to
make sure it is clear and has worked
properly.
Did your partner experience any discomfort
at all?
Clarebear
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2ferano
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Posted: 09-20-04 13:10pm
Just make sure that you are still careful
after he gets the procedure done. Even
if his sperm is tested after the operation
and comes out clear, doesn't mean it will
stay that way. One of my sister's
friends got pregnant while on birth
control and her man had a vysectomy.
These things can happen!
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Posted: 09-24-04 09:55am
I've asked my partner about it, and he
says it was a bit uncomfortable for a few
days, not really painful just a bit
tender, but it was worth it! He knew he
never wanted kids and it's been great for
us.
I have heard that it can undo itself, but
this is really rare. If you think you
need to use other birth control as well,
there is really no point in getting it
done, is there? I think it is probably
one of the most effective, safest and has
least side effects of just about any other
method. If couples really don't want
children, there is absolutely nothing to
compare with this little operation!
By the way, if your husband is at all
reluctant about having it done, because
maybe they will find a cure for you and
you will want children, or whatever,
suggest that he has some sperm frozen.
