Hey, there.
I am an 18-year-old female who has been considering a hysterectomy since I was 15. Since I have begun college, my consideration has become more intense. Menstrual problems run through my mom's side of the family, and have been effecting me since I was twelve, and I have little to no interest in family or even sex. But when I brought it up with my mother, she freaked, and then she told half of her side of the family, who also freaked out.
On top of that, I only trust three doctors in the world, but one is a family physician, the second is a chiropractor, and the third refuses to do hysterectomies unless it's a life-or-death situation (although I think I could deal with going to another doctor if I had to).
I have already heard the 'but if you decide you want kids later on...' lecture several dozen times, and quite frankly it's plain annoying, considering the number of children who are without homes and could be adopted. The people who know keep giving me these weird looks, too. Plus, it's becoming an economical pain, having to go out and spend extra $$ on pads when I need the money for school.
Why is it I keep getting treated like an alien for wanting to go through the procedure? I have already gone through the alternatives, and I don't like any of them. I have also gone through several sites regarding aftermath, and I am totally accepting of what comes with a hysterectomy. Why is it so terrible for me to want this?