Hope this helps.......
I pooped with my first baby.... I didnt care at the time because of the amount of pain I was in, paul didnt care because he started to see cailey's head, and after the birth it didnt even matter any more because I had this tiny baby in my arms.... Paul does not remember me pooing, my mum does not remember, and I do not care......
With amber I did not poo,
as a woman who has experianced both sides of the poop issue I can safely say that if you poo you might care for about 20 seconds and if you dont it will feel like you are any way........ Dont stress....... In the end poop or no poop there will be babies and thats all that matters