Oh no suzi i'm sorry hun u don't need this you really don't.Do you think he was serious? Is he always this extreme when he's drunk? I just don't understand why he'd do that-it's not like your relationship is a bad one-you've been through tought things but you've come through the other side.
You must be very angry with him being so far away & not being able to talk about it.What are you going to do?

I emailed his ship telling him to get in contact with me asap. We have had our worst fights when he is drunk. But he is mad with me because I went shopping with my friend billy, he was like yeah your gonna dump me for someone called william. I told him to stop being silly of course I wasent he was the only one for me and that I loved him. Next thing I know I got some rude american guy on the phone saying how much he loves chris for buying him all the drinks. I said to chris oh I hope your not chattign anyone up and he was like oh you know me im chatty and im too flirty. Then he starts hitting out with we are gonna break up he doesnt sound like my chris on the phone at all. He sounds like he has changed. I feel like phoning his mum and asking her to talk to him. I am so worried. He has lost all his shipmates and he's out with these guys he doesnt even know getting drunk with them.

I feel like just washing my hands with him, liz we are far from perfect if I listed all the things he has done to me I owuld be here all night, but my theory was well we stuck together and thats the main point. But there is only so much someone can put up with and my heart just can not take anymore espeically losing my 2nd baby.

You poor chicken that'd break my heart if mike did that-especially if I had no real way of contacting him.I one of those people who likes to sit down & sort out my problems there & then so I couldn't cope with being in your situation & trying to deal with things over the phone.Maybe he's changed-maybe he's become something you don't like.Don't take this crap though-your worth more then that.You've had to deal with loosing that baby on your own & that's a lot of stress for you to have had to deal with.
He sounds very possessive & jealous to me-he went totally over the top about you going shopping with your friend-girls can have male friends without fancying them.If I was you I would be so upset & very mad now.Wish I could chat on yahoo or msn but my comp won't let me to download them.
Hope you're ok

Well im little more composed now... I phoned his mum, asked her if he has said anything to her but she hasent spoke to him either.

Maybe he is looking for an excuse to break up with me!!

Yes I agree you can have make or female friends. He had one friend that I told him if he seen her then I would leave him. But thats because he crossed the line, we broke up and he kissed her and I just feel like swinging for her everytime I see her. He thinks that im being a hyprocrit because I now have a close friend. But I know where to draw the line. He doesnt have my phone number and he has a girlfriend. Also I dont go out to the pub with him on my own. He's making me suffer for it. I have guys asking me out all the time and im saying no and what for, that arsehole.

When chanda said josh is her weak spot well chris is mine!

Suzi-you need to do what makes you happy hun.I know you say chris is your weakness but that doesn't mean you should except that you're crazy about him& let him treat you like crap.I do hope you get things sorted out-perhaps he's one of those men who just shouldn't drink at all.

I dont know hopefully he will phone me back tomorrow. Sober

Aw suzi im soo sorry! Hopefully its nothing and hell get over it and see what he's missing out on!


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gaby

Well, just wait and see. Jon call, me druck at tells me stupid sh*t too. I just ignore him until he gets his sh*t together, and comes crawling back. Keep, your head up suzi, everything will work out.

I agree suzi. I think you need to take what he said with a grain of salt until he calls you sober. I'm sorry this happened! I know it gets you thinking about things and its probably driving you crazy! Don't worry. As soon as he realizes how great you are, he'll know he can't be without you! And no matter what happens, we are here for you!

Poor peanut,men can be such rotten dogs when they are drunk!Wait for him to sober up and see if he even remembers any of his tirade.Not that its an excuse,but sometimes we say things we regret when we are in the bag.In the mean time ,be good to yourself and be with people who love and nuture you.Best to you.Patty

Omg suzi I am so sorry! Sorry its taken me so long to respond, im just about to write back to ur pm too. Im so sorry this had to happen to u! Have u gotten ahold of him yet? Can u think of a reason why he said that? That is not fair to u for him to be playing with ur heart like that. He may be drunk but he should know better than to hurt u. You've already went thru enough pain wit ur m/c, he should hafta put u thru more. I hope he sobers up, calls u, and apologizes for bein such a d*ck. Im so sorry girl, i'll go pm u.

Shauna