I want another baby so bad. I am 16 and I
have a 2-year-old daughter but I know how
my family reacted to that. My mom wasn't
even in the delivery room when I had her,
it was just me and my baby daddy.
I miss being pregnant and miss having a
newborn to carry around. Is any of yall
in this situation? Please comment.
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SHM85
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2004 Posts: 34 Location: United States
Reply About Another Baby Posted: 09-09-04 21:48pm
That does sound a little crazy ,
im not in that situation but my cousin is
in that situation, she has 3 kids all 2yrs
apart and she always talk about having
another kid which I thought was crazy
because she doesnt have a good job and the
guy that shes with is living off of
uneployment money which isnt that much.
All her kids have different dads. I hate
to say this but I see her life going down
the drain with kids she cant take good
care of and they all have different dads,
and what really matters is if the kids are
getting taking care of . I dont know how
things are with your baby dady if its with
him your planning on having anothing kid
I would say wait a little til you finish
with your school education and get
married to the right guy and if you can
take care of another kid financially then
it wont be so bad, also you might want to
consider your parents feelings too about
it. I hope that made sence and it helped.
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 09-10-04 03:04am
Yep thats definately crazy.
What worries me is you say you miss having
a new-born. Does that mean you are now
bored of your daughter?
Perhaps you miss all the attention you got
when you first had a baby, after all
you're old hat at it now, so I bet loads
of people just leave you to get on with
it.
Spend sometime pampering yourself instead.
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MsWebster
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2004 Posts: 84
Posted: 09-10-04 07:57am
You are only sixteen why in the hell would
you want another baby you have already cut
your teenage life short by having one when
you were 14 just want at least two more
years when your of age. I'm 21 and I want
a baby now but, then I sit and think of
things that I would have to give up such
as school which is my primary focus at the
moment I have one degree and two more to
go. Just enjoy your little girl now and
have another one later I wish you the best
of luck.
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2004 Posts: 221 Location: OHIO
Posted: 09-10-04 10:07am
You all are wonderful, I needed that...
Its not that i'm bored with my daughter,
sorry I made it sound that way.
I love the hell out of my daughter and I
decided to wait to have a baby.
Your comments really helped!
Thanks!
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 09-10-04 14:33pm
Proud of you for making a wise decision
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 09-21-04 09:32am
Just promise you'll be like safe
emotionally and financially when you have
another baby and that you are now. And do
wait. good luck
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jessamyn
Supporter
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 10-18-04 12:16pm
Can u handle another baby hun?
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 10-19-04 20:50pm
Ooh ciara I know this is an old post but
take ur time! lovee you muchos.
,
im not in that situation but my cousin is
in that situation, she has 3 kids all 2yrs
apart and she always talk about having
another kid which I thought was crazy
because she doesnt have a good job and the
guy that shes with is living off of
uneployment money which isnt that much.
All her kids have different dads. I hate
to say this but I see her life going down
the drain with kids she cant take good
care of and they all have different dads,
and what really matters is if the kids are
getting taking care of . I dont know how
things are with your baby dady if its with
him your planning on having anothing kid
I would say wait a little til you finish
with your school education and get
married to the right guy and if you can
take care of another kid financially then
it wont be so bad, also you might want to
consider your parents feelings too about
it. I hope that made sence and it helped.
good luck
lovee you muchos.