Wow, what a transformation... I would be
upset too. (and i'm a guy)
hopefully this advice will help.
First, the stretchmarks. During
pregnancy you should have rubbed cocoa
butter into your skin 2 times per day.
However, it's not too late. Go to your
local drug store and pick up some 100%
cocoa butter. Again, rub it in 2-3 times
per day while the stretch marks are still
red. If they've turned brown (into
bruises) then you will need to buy some
vitamin e capsules... Take 1 per day with
water. And use 1 and crack it open in
your hand... It's 100% pure vitamin e,
rub it into your skin (it's odorless,
don't worry), and those stretch marks will
be disappearing in a few weeks. (yes,
literally.. Weeks.)
second, the weight is something you need
to start working on immediately while your
hormones are still stabalizing, otherwise
it'll be an uphill struggle for a long
time to come. This is your metabolism
that needs changing... And to be honest,
to get back to your former body-size you
don't need to join a gym---however, to get
the firmness back, you will need the gym.
To save my breath, read the outlined
directions in this post here:
http://ehealthfor
um.Com/health/topic30833.Html it will
be enough to get you started.
In you case, you will need to increase
your metabolism now, while it is still
very flexible. This means, you need to
get active. Moderate cardio twice a day,
small meals throughout the day, and stay
away from complex carbohydrates. Now
listen, it sounds tough.. But if you
don't start now, it'll be a lot tougher.
Get yourself together, and in a year once
your metabolism stabalizes back to where
it was you can enjoy all the chocolate
cake you want, and laze around all you
want... But right now, you need to buck
up and get back on track.
If you need more specific advice, don't be
afraid to ask or pm.
Good luck,
justin