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Q: 14 Weeks Preg And Now Having a Misscarrige
asked by: jamiewthrw on September 9th, 2004
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Sad Crying or Very sad Sad Crying or Very sad Sad Crying or Very sad starting bleeding over the weekend. Called doctor told me to stay of my feet and have an ultrasound done. Hade that done and the doctor told me in my husband that its going to be a misscarriage.. It's know thursday and bleeding like I never bleed before and there are a lot of blood clots. Im a mother of one and this never happen to be so im really sad and scared. Can some one give me advice. Thanks Sad Crying or Very sad Sad Crying or Very sad Sad Crying or Very sad
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pitterpatter
replied on September 9th, 2004
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Just stay positive. When you have a miscarrage it usually means somthing is not right. Either with the egg or the sperm or something. So it's better to just try and stay positive and look at the bright side of this. Even though it's hard.
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
replied on September 9th, 2004
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I'm sorry.

Before I got pregnant with my daughter, I had 2 miscarriages.
It was hard but I then looked at the bright side and said "i will be able to carry a child when god thinks i'm ready too" and bam, I was pregnant and carried her to term. There are many women out there that have had miscarriages and also had successful pregnancies after them.
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silverlou
replied on September 10th, 2004
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I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I just miscarried last week, over the weekend. I felt very sad and disappointed and angry when I found out that I was going to miscarry. I have a great friend/therapist who really helped me come to terms with what was happening, it was really helpful to talk to someone who was caring and objective and really listened to my fears and my pain, it may help you too.

About the physical part of it, the bleeding, my doctor told me to expect bleeding, probably heavier than a regular period, and if I was bleeding so much that I would soak through a regular pad in an hour to go to emergency. For me it was a very sad time while I was bleeding, and the first day was very painful, lots of cramps, but I did not overbleed, and now 1 week since I started bleeding I think i'm actually ovulating. I am ready to try again right away, but if you aren't then don't give yourself the time you need to grieve the loss of your child.

I hope you are doing okay
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insurancegirl
replied on September 10th, 2004
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Aww, i'm so sorry Sad my prayers are with you and your hubby.

~jennifer~

try to keep your chin up!
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hm_03
replied on September 10th, 2004
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I'm so sorry to hear about that it must be the hardest and saddest thing to deal with. Have faith and stay positive. I really hope things work out.

God bless you and your family.


Madelyne Sad
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Kia
replied on September 10th, 2004
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scorpio4oryan wrote:
before I got pregnant with my daughter, I had 2 miscarriages.


omg really - how old were you then (isn't that classsed as rape anyway?)
maybe you miscarried because you were not physically ready for pregnancy?
Ok a bit hypocritical cuz I started early too but didn't get pregnant.
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