Joined: 09 Sep 2004 Posts: 1 Location: pittsburgh pa
14 Weeks Preg And Now Having a Misscarrige Posted: 09-09-04 19:20pm
starting bleeding over the weekend.
Called doctor told me to stay of my feet
and have an ultrasound done. Hade that
done and the doctor told me in my husband
that its going to be a misscarriage..
It's know thursday and bleeding like I
never bleed before and there are a lot of
blood clots. Im a mother of one and this
never happen to be so im really sad and
scared. Can some one give me advice.
Thanks
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 619 Location: United States
Posted: 09-09-04 21:40pm
Just stay positive. When you have a
miscarrage it usually means somthing is
not right. Either with the egg or the
sperm or something. So it's better to
just try and stay positive and look at the
bright side of this. Even though it's
hard.
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2004 Posts: 221 Location: OHIO
Posted: 09-09-04 23:35pm
I'm sorry.
Before I got pregnant with my daughter, I
had 2 miscarriages.
It was hard but I then looked at the
bright side and said "i will be able to
carry a child when god thinks i'm ready
too" and bam, I was pregnant and carried
her to term. There are many women out
there that have had miscarriages and also
had successful pregnancies after them.
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silverlou
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 124 Location: Toronto
Posted: 09-10-04 09:43am
I'm so sorry that you are going through
this. I just miscarried last week, over
the weekend. I felt very sad and
disappointed and angry when I found out
that I was going to miscarry. I have a
great friend/therapist who really helped
me come to terms with what was happening,
it was really helpful to talk to someone
who was caring and objective and really
listened to my fears and my pain, it may
help you too.
About the physical part of it, the
bleeding, my doctor told me to expect
bleeding, probably heavier than a regular
period, and if I was bleeding so much that
I would soak through a regular pad in an
hour to go to emergency. For me it was a
very sad time while I was bleeding, and
the first day was very painful, lots of
cramps, but I did not overbleed, and now 1
week since I started bleeding I think i'm
actually ovulating. I am ready to try
again right away, but if you aren't then
don't give yourself the time you need to
grieve the loss of your child.
I hope you are doing okay
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 09-10-04 10:29am
Aww, i'm so sorry my prayers are
with you and your hubby.
I'm so sorry to hear about that it must be
the hardest and saddest thing to deal
with. Have faith and stay positive. I
really hope things work out.
God bless you and your family.
Madelyne
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 09-10-04 14:43pm
scorpio4oryan
wrote:
before I got pregnant with
my daughter, I had 2
miscarriages.
omg really - how old were you then (isn't
that classsed as rape anyway?)
maybe you miscarried because you were not
physically ready for pregnancy?
Ok a bit hypocritical cuz I started early
too but didn't get pregnant.
