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BandC23
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Odor
Posted: 10-02-03 12:37pm
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My wife has a bad odor when we have
intercourse, I really want to give her
oral sex but I can not get past this odor.
I don't want to hurt her feelings to just
come right out and tell her her
secrieations are offencive to me.
I am able to give her wonderful orgasms
with my hand and penis btw.
I love my wife so much this is becoming a
secret issue to me.
Help!
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 10-02-03 13:54pm
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Well have her douche. It cleans her down
there, and has a fresh scent. For
temporary relief for now of the smell, buy
her lickable lotion, they have many great
scents and tastes. Have her shower at
night, to be fresh then put the lotion on
her down there. And you should be fine
going down on her tasting the lotion. You
dont have to tell her she smells down
there, just have her try it to be
creative. Good luck, hope it helps
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Darling
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Posted: 10-02-03 14:00pm
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Nikki is right however I wouldn't suggest
douching often. It unblanaces the natural
chemicals your vagina need to clean
itself. The vagina is a self cleaning
organ so as long as she's washing herself
everyday it shouldn't be that offensive.
However like nikki said there are some
great tasting oils and lubricants that you
could try. Best of luck
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niceguy
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Odor?
Posted: 10-02-03 14:08pm
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Hi bandc23. I read your problem with odor
and I think your wife has a yeast
infection down there. I experienced the
same thing once with my wife. She had
started to stink down there and went to
the doc who prescribed a 7 day yeast cream
(i think it was monistat). After that she
smelled real nice and the stink never came
back.
Good luck to you!
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BandC23
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Posted: 10-02-03 14:49pm
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| nikki_caro
wrote: | | well have her douche. It
cleans her down there, and has a fresh
scent. For temporary relief for now of
the smell, buy her lickable lotion, they
have many great scents and tastes. Have
her shower at night, to be fresh then put
the lotion on her down there. And you
should be fine going down on her tasting
the lotion. You dont have to tell her
she smells down there, just have her try
it to be creative. Good luck, hope it
helps |
i have asked her if she douche' she says
her dr doesn't advise that 
As for the sented oils I never thought of
that thanks!
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 10-02-03 15:19pm
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Your welcome! But thats weird her doc
said not to do that....They also have
other things like vagisil cream cleanser
and its a foam that she can put on a
toilet paper and just wipe down there and
its for wetness and odor prevention. And
its small enough to fit in a purse! Its
only like $2 or something like that.
There are alot of things, but just for the
spur of the moment, the lotions and a
fresh shower work best!
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BandC23
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Posted: 10-02-03 17:33pm
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Thanks again!
My wife and I have been married 2 years
now sence june. We are both in our mid
40's
my c has had a gastric bypass surgery so
far she has lost 105 pounds (the sugery
was her idea) her weight pre op. Was at
277 pounds 4'10" tall. I am so proude of
her  it's just this one
thing (odor) that I have a problem with.
I'm going to try chaing with her about
this 
i know I satisfy her! I think this is
more for me, don't know why I guess it's
a man thing 
cheers and thanks again for your
replies.
Byron 
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BandC23
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Posted: 10-02-03 17:36pm
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| darling
wrote: | | nikki is right however I
wouldn't suggest douching often. It
unblanaces the natural chemicals your
vagina need to clean itself. The vagina
is a self cleaning organ so as long as
she's washing herself everyday it
shouldn't be that offensive. However
like nikki said there are some great
tasting oils and lubricants that you could
try. Best of
luck |
i think that this is my wifes idea of why
she does not douche
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 10-02-03 17:48pm
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Oh thats fine. But good for you on being
so happy!!! I know its a man thing and
you should be able to do things you want
without having a problem! Congrats on her
weight loss! I personally dont want my
husband to that, I dont know why, ive
never had it and I gues im afraid
to!Hahaha but hope things work out!
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BandC23
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 10-03-03 11:00am
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Well I think if you talk her into it and
get her into the mood she will. You just
kinda have to coach her and tell her to be
more experimental! I think I spelled it
right. But get the lotions and talk her
into it, im sure shes be willing even if
it was only once to try.
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cyndyb
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Odor
Posted: 10-10-03 00:12am
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Please do not have u'r wife to douche.
She has a bacteria infection. Have her
see her gyn doc. The smell is from the
seman mixing with the bacteria. Yeast
infections do not smell that bad.
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jcar2645
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Posted: 10-10-03 18:07pm
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You need to tell her to go to the doctors
cause if its a fishy or foul odor it could
be caused by bacterial vaginosis, its not
an std its just an imbalance in the
bacteria that lives in a womans vagina.
its treated with anit biotics.
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BandC23
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Posted: 10-12-03 20:57pm
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Thanks for all of your replies keep 'em
coming I need all the input I can get!
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maycoo411
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Yeast Infection
Posted: 10-13-03 07:47am
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Number one thing is please tell any women
they should not douche...It is very bad
for the vagina....There are many other
ways to get the freshness that you think
the douche is doing..Like someone said the
vagina cleans its self and the douche can
make many problems worse (i know from
experience)... Number two thing is I just
got over my period last week and my
husband and I had sex saturday..Then on
sunday and today is real bad, my down
there spot is burning and today I had
bleeding again tried to put in a tampon
and oh my gosh did it hurt...There is an
odor too that is not a normal smell...?
What is wrong? Help 
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Suzy
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Posted: 10-15-03 14:38pm
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Dear band,
the girls here are right. It is very bad
for a woman to douche, and your wife
obviously already knows this. It
unbalances the natural ph in the vagina.
Usually after a fresh shower everything
should be ok, so if your wife has a bad
vaginal odor then she most likely has an
infection of some kind. Many women have
problems with yeast infections, and there
are many treatments. If she makes an
appointment to see her doctor, i'm sure
they could find out what it is, and how to
treat it.
Good luck...
.::suzy::.
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minerwater
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One More Advise
Posted: 11-04-03 13:44pm
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Hello,
if its a problem that has just started, it
could be an infection, maybe she should go
to the doctor. You can say.."i've noticed
a change in odour, just thinking maybe
there is a change that needs to be seen by
a doctor".
Or, hygene. When are you going down on
her? Take a shower or bath together first
to freshen up (both of you. Men can stink
too!!!!) and then see...If it's clean and
still smells it's her fluids..That
shouldn't smell horrible. We all have a
smell but shouldn't be bad.
No douche..Can cause yeast
infections...Stay away!
And if that doesn't all work...Buy
flavoured lotions at a sex shop..Use it
for flavour and smell.
Good luck!
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secretgarden8
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Odor
Posted: 07-18-07 21:17pm
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Hello, I have a response that might help.
I tried putting a cherry lifesaver inside
once as a surprise for my special someone.
He was surprised and liked it very
much!!
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Tylanas
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Re: Odor
Posted: 07-18-07 23:27pm
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| secretgarden8
wrote: | | Hello, I have a response
that might help. I tried putting a cherry
lifesaver inside once as a surprise for my
special someone. He was surprised and
liked it very
much!! |
Sugar in the vagina can promote the growth
of bad bacteria, and introducing an
unwashed item of food can also draw in bad
bacteria...
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Georgia59
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Posted: 07-20-07 10:08am
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I agree, don't douche. But if it really
smells that bad, there might be something
wrong. She should get checked out.
However, if she just smells like that, you
can get past it by bathing with her before
sex. Not only is it really romantic and
sexy, it will help her feel clean so she
might want it more and help you to feel
more comfortable going down there.
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