No one can really tell you whether you'll fare better on the pill or patch, your doctor will do a family history after which she'll perscribe a pill for you. If you really want to go on the patch tell her, and she'll tell you if you're eligible. The patch has the same hormones as combination pills (though in different amounts), it's really just personal perference combined with trail and error. If you're worried about forgetting another option is nuvaring, which you wear internally for 3 weeks then take it yout for a week to get your period.
Many doctors will write you a 3 or 6 month perscription for you birth control method after which you'll go back and discuss how it's working for you.
Best of luck!
~.Laura