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I am 19 years old. I was raised in a very good family with a two year old sister and a five year old brother. I met my boyfriend during my senior year of high school. We fell in love and moved in together and got engaged. We were always safe about sex. I got on birth control and took them everyday at the same time. We had no problems or scary signs of pregnancy until two months ago. I didn't get my period in June and then July rolled around and it still hadn't come. Two weeks ago I decided to take a pregnancy test and it came out positive. I was scared out of my mind. We can barely pay rent, we live paycheck to paycheck. I was scared of the thought of having to be connected with the same man for the rest of my life. I didn't tell him I had the results instead I was so scared that I went out with a guy friend (my boyfriend doesn't like him) and I kissed him hoping everything would disappear. My matters just got worse. The next day I told my boyfriend I kissed another guy and he left me. I packed everything and left. I told him three days ago that I was pregnant and knew it before he left and told him why I did what I did. I want him to come back because I love him. This wasn't just a fling or anything we dated for fourteen months and now he is gone. He says he wants to come back but I am afraid he is only saying that because I am pregnant with his child. To top things of I don't know how to face my family especially my parents. They have always been so proud of be and now I have to see the disappointment on their faces. I pray to God that things work out for the best for me, my baby, and my boyfriend. I never thought I would be in the boat I am in but I am here and I am SCARED2DEATH. The only advice I have for other teenage girls is God really does care and will show you the right path. Good luck to all the other girls out there and good luck to all the other guys out there.

Sincerely,
SCARED2DEATH

Hi, i am a pregnant teen im 14 years old young yes but to late for that i had sex with a guy thats 18 soon to be 19 my parents will press charges hes supportive of which ever decision i make but i dont wan thim to get in trouble i eould never never have an abortion the word seeps out of my mouth like venom it makes me sick to my staomach to look at myself when i have that thought but what else can i do im considering running off and raisin it on my own and worse is i think i love the guy!!! but he dont feel the same like sure he likes me alot but if im gonna have this baby i want to knowin its dad will be with ME and i dont know if hell stay with me that way i want to get married someday and i dont think hell be ready to have a serious relationship with a kid involved u know?? so plz u can use me in ur column i want to remain anoynomous but sign me too young for this and reply to me with the advice u get and with ne u have i hope this helps u or ne of ur readers plz reply to me.... signed TOO YOUNG FOR THIS!!!!

Taisa, I understand right now you feel like this baby will help ur life alot, but you haven't even began to experience the turns of life. Reality really doesn't hit til 16 or 17. Think about when you get older and wanna go with friends, you have to worry about a babysitter, and leaving your child with a complete stranger. If you are leaving your family then who are you gonna go to when you need help, not your boyfriend. Although abortion burns in your mouth, I hate that word too,but you have to think when your baby ask you why you got pregnant so young you have to say it was a mistake, or was it? You aren't even old enough to work, how are you gonna support it? Don't depend on the government b/c they don't give you much. Think about when you hit 21 and you wanna go have a ball at the nearest bar, maybe even have a fling- you can't do it b/c u have your child living with you...maybe not even that. If the state,b/c of your age, thinks you can't handle a child, they can legally take it away. If that happens they would give it to next to kin. Meaning no matter how much you hate it, you will have to go to your mom in order to see your child...Email Me for advice!!

heyy everyOne my name is justii...im a pregnant teen whO like taisa..is 14.Unlike her the father Of my babii is 16 and he is my bOyfriend.That actually makes it wOrse.Because for One thing i wOuld be sO afraid that my babii will be fatherless if chris(my bOyfriend) and i break up.
I have thOught abOut it and i am nOt in nO way going tO have an abOrtiOn.The wOrd seems unreal tO me. I want tO gO abOut it the right way. Why kill an innOcent babii just because the child was unexpected...thats crazee.chris and i may nOt have been ready for a child but since we are having One we are ready for any Obstical that might cOme Our way. i dOnt lOve him but i care fOr him.and taisa...hOney yOu dOnt lOve him yOu just feel that yOu have tO lOve him because he is the father Of yOur babii and i think u think its an excuse as tO why u dOnt want him tO gO tO jail.And anOther thing mama,if yOur parents want the babii tO have a father that can actually help his sOn/daughter by physically beig there, they wOuldnt file a lawsuit Of any kind.im here fOr yOu. if u dOnt mind me asking,hOw far alOng are yOu?..i am 3 weeks.
if you wOuld like u can PM me

Hi, my name is Patricia. I'm 17 years old and almost 7 months pregnant. I'm no longer with the father of my baby because I made the decision when I found out I was pregnant (at 2 months) that he's not mature enough and is not willing to take full responsibility for his actions- even though he's a 20 year old man. There's no doubt in any of our minds that its his child, so its not like he's denying it or anything, he just doesn't realize how much work a child really is. It's been 5 months since we've known about the baby and he's still without a job, living off of other people, drinking, smoking weed, and partying every night. And since I left him he's been sleeping around with many other girls. I have to do this on my own because I have no support from anyone- except for the couple a close friends I have, but they can't do much for me- they're still young too. My mother and the rest of my family want nothing to do with this child. They don't believe in inter-racial relationships, and I do. My baby will be bi-racial (black and white). I'm not sure whats going through my baby's dad's families minds, I havent talked to any of them much since I broke up with him. But I really doubt there going to be of any help. My baby is due not even 3 weeks before my 18th birthday- and I have to be out of my mothers house when I turn 18. I don't have a job (but not because I havent tried to get one- I have- no one wants to hire a pregnant teen though so Ive been outta luck) I'm still in school, but I'm now taking special classes that will hopefully help me to graduate sooner. I havent talked to my baby's dad in over a month, because he's changed residences and I dont know his new number, and hes not allowed to call or come over here because my mother wont allow it, so i have no way to get ahold of him. Not even his parents no where he is.

Hey, im 14, and pregnant with my firsh child, a wonderful baby girl due may 11th 2004. (her name will be jaylynn marie).

Why do people bring up these old posts that have no relevance now???

Jill I was beginning to think that I was crazy. 1st of all how could a 14 yr. Old be a writer for a magazine. 2nd of all who the hell are all these girls that i've never seen here, except babyp and maybe once scaredtodeath. How do you bring up old post anyway. I don't know how to do caca . I still can't even get my damn picture up here.

Brenda

You know one the bottom of the screen where it says pages 1,2,3,...42,43,44 or something like that? Well I geuss they click on the last page avalible or something! But it is really annoying cause I always take time to read the post and then I start wondering who the people are that are replying cause I dont recognize their names and finally I figure out the post is 6 months old and it was a waste of time and really annoying!

Sorry jill, I dident mean to offend you, lol, my bad

Damn way too old! How do these get brought back up?!