Hey guys im new but this is not really
concerning me its concerning my friend.
She resently broke up with her boyfriend
eric, she was with him for about 7 months
and they did everything. I mean
everything. She is very upset and she
broke up with him well more like a month
ago. She threatens to kill herself and I
try to help her cope with it but theres
only so much I can do, I mean I try to put
in a good word and tell her she can do
better she will find someone new but I
cant keep repeating myself. I just dont
want her to hurt herself. Does anyone
have any ideas as to how I can help.?
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BabyPassion
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2003 Posts: 94 Location: Bronx, NY
Posted: 10-01-03 21:06pm
Kristen, does she have aol.....If she does
I would like her to email me better yet im
me...I would like to talk to her.....You
are doing everything right don't stop
being a good friend.....You can't really
do to much but talk to her... The only
really thing that will make her feel
better is if she found somebody
else...Maybe you can help her find
someone.... Don't push anyone on
her...Good luck....Tell her to get I
contact with me....
Your friend
passion
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 10-02-03 23:12pm
Dear kkay,
your friend needs you now more than ever,
breaking up with someone you love is like
a death in the family, so I guess you
could say she is kind of grieving, keep
being her friend and try to visit her
often. Maybe she can come stay with you
for a while until she is back on her feet
? While this is not always possible, try
to remain strong for her as she obviously
is not. It may not be a better guy she
needs right now but more so a friend, and
you are that someone. She is probably
going to need a few things to keep her
mind off him and learn to appreciate the
good things in life again, try and have
some quiet nights in watching videos,
eating pizza, have some slumber parties,
just you and her. If she seems as though
she is ok with others around, maybe you
could invite some other friends round
aswell (male and female) so that she is at
least socializing again.
