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Q: Girls~i'm So Upset.
asked by: smith8500 on September 5th, 2004
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Hey girls,
i really need you all right now. I've been dealing with some friendship crap for the past week. Remember lauren~the one I was "kissing" (not really!) in the 4th of july pic. Well, I just got this e-mail from her:

ok...Look...



I know you think i've been acting 'funny' lately...But this is me...I don't feel the connection we used to have anymore...And no its not bc of kim and no it's not because of josh...Bc that's the two reasons I know you are probably thinking it is...I just don't feel the same way that I used to about you...I mean yea I love you to death but I just dont feel that I can be as close to you as I used to be....There are many reasons for that...But you asked me to give you a reason for the way that I have been acting...And this is it....So please stop blowing my phone up...And stop poppin up at my house....But I do want to thank you for everything that you've done for me...And thank you for being there for me over these last few months.....


Sincerely,
lauren jo

so, I called her after I read this. And I was like. what! Well, she didn't say much. Just said that she "needs time" and "doesn't know" and "it's not me it's her". Like a doing it relationship! Man.... I don't understand what I did wrong. I kept asking her while we were on the phone and she really kept telling me that I didn't do anything and it was all her and I was bawling my eyes out Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad . I hate to fight with friends and I ..... Man. This caca is hard.........


Anyway, I just needed to get this out.


Love ya,
chanda
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linuxChique
replied on September 5th, 2004
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Chanda you can blow my phone up!!

If she doesn't want to be friends with you, she doesn't know what she's missing, and she isn't worth your time! I can't stay on long, but I want you to know that you are worth more than that kind of friendship!!
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bellax0x
replied on September 5th, 2004
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Hey hun! I talked to you on aol about this. And seriously if you want my number ill give it to you. Acutally im goign to pm it to ya! You deserve better! Youre such a great girl!!

<3
gaby
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babyrae
replied on September 5th, 2004
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Awww hunny! Im gonna be on yahoo in a bit so if ur on, ill talk to u there. She sounds like she doesnt know how to appreciate true friendship. All us girls on here know how u have helped us out of very tough situations, u give us honest opinions to help us out (no matter how harsh they seem to be, u speak the truth which is what we need to hear) and girl, ur a very good friend and she just doesnt know how to appreciate that. She says she thanks u for all those times uve been there for her, well what about when shes gonna need u down the road and u wont be there becuz she turned away ur friendhsip. Shes stupid and im sorry u have to go thru such an ordeal. I know what its like to lose a good friend and it hurts like hell... But ur a strong girl chanda and u have us and ur other true friends... Chanda, we love u so much and we(caps) really appreciate everything uve done for us and we'll never reject u.


Shauna
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JeSsYmOm22
replied on September 5th, 2004
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Im in a similar situation as you. My bestfriend and I have been friends for 5 years and all of a sudden she started hangin out with my boyfriend sister which is a total *****. Anyway..She started hangin with her or whatever and she started smokin, flashing 30yr old men, drinkin, and goin behind my back in sh*t. So basically and obviously we arent friends anymore because of my boyfriends stupid sister!!! She hates me and I hate her. I hate her because she stole my boyfriends best friend which is her boyfriend now (really isnt a relationship just sex) and she stole my bestfriend and turned her into a horrible person..So..Therefore I cant stand neither one of them now.
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nikki_caro
replied on September 5th, 2004
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Well shes dumb if she dont want a friend like you!
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smith8500
replied on September 6th, 2004
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Thanks girls. It really means a lot to me. Ya know, it's so funny. I have better "friends" on the internet.... That i've never met. Then I have in real life.
I love you all!
Love,
chanda
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Michelle1337
replied on September 6th, 2004
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Aww chanda! I'm so sorry! You dont deserve that. But hey, maybe its just pms and she'll get over it in a week Wink
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sparklypixie12
replied on September 6th, 2004
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Oooo chanda I know the feeling-i hate when you don't know what you've done wrong.Some people arent worth being friends with though.I fell out with my friend last week-she was so horrible to me & she said she "couldn't stand me" & that I was a bi*ch thing is i'd be there for her through everything but she only came running to me when she fell out with her boyfriend & wanted some 'advice'. Im so through with her because friends shouldnt make you feel like that-why should we have to feel bad & blame ourselves when we havent done anything wrong? I do hope you two sort things out because its clear she means a lot to you & its not nice to loose a good friend.Keep us updated-we're hear to let you vent!
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sweetsuzi
replied on September 6th, 2004
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Chanda she sounds like a total problem, dont waste your tears on her.... What comes around goes around and she will end up with no one but herself.
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IDABABY
replied on September 6th, 2004
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Chanda-
lauren needs to grow up...You will be fine. medical question her you got us! Smile Smile
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2ferano
replied on September 6th, 2004
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I am so sorry I wasn't on earlier! But, I pm'ed you!
You are better off without her! And when she comes crawling back, tell her to f-ck off!
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groomer23
replied on September 7th, 2004
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That sounds so familiar, that's exactly what my boyfriend is doing to me right now! Sad i'm sorry she's being like that, she obviously doesn't realize that you are a great person. Love ya girl, hang in there!
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smith8500
replied on September 7th, 2004
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Thanks so much girls.
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