What Should I Do????plz Can Someone Help Me. Posted: 09-05-04 20:52pm
Hi,
i have a major problem, at least it seems
major to me.
My best friend introduced me to one of her
guy friends about 3 years ago, from the
first moment I seen him I fell instantly
in love with him. We started dating a
few weeks after we met. We went out for
almost a year and three months, then we
broke up and did not see or speak to one
another for almost a year. Then one day
out of the blue we started talking to each
other, then a week later we were back
together again.Then it started going down
hill once again, and we broke up. Then
we dated 3 or 4 times more, off and on for
only a few days. Then in may we started
dating again, it was going so good, we
were always talking and seen each other as
much as possible. On august 10th we
broke up. We both thought it was semi
for the best. We are 3 years apart in
age, and he said that he wanted some one
his age.( I am the older one out of us).
We were not talking to each other again,
about a week ago we started talking again.
Now the thing that baffles me, we live in
different towns, about 7-9 miles away.
He rode a bicycle to my town, then called
me on his cell phone to see if I would
meet him some where. (but he had 2
friends with him, also.) I asked him why
he rode all the way here and he said "i
don't know."
is that a good thing or what? And please
if things get going good again, should I
try to date him again or do you think that
it's just a waste of time, and will just
create another broken heart? I am very
love sick with this guy and need the most
and or any advise anyone can give me.
Thank you so much for your time. And for
those that reply, thank you for your
advise.
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 619 Location: United States
Posted: 09-06-04 00:24am
Well, as dr phil would say past behavior
predicts future behavior and you two are
obviosly not compatible. So my answer
would be no! It's a waste of time.
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NuBNPrince
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2003 Posts: 7 Location: Fort Washington, Maryland
Re: What Should I Do????plz Can Someone Help Me. Posted: 09-10-04 13:41pm
I would have to agree with pitterpatter. The constant
break-ups should show you that you two may
not be compatible. It may be in your
best interest to move on. You'll even
thank yourself for moving on when you're
with someone and it actually lasts...
Without all that on-and-off stuff...
Now... If you don't mind, I have a
question for you... Please don't take
this the wrong way. I noticed something
in your post and I had to ask about it:
good_88
wrote:
my best friend introduced me
to one of her guy friends about 3 years
ago, from
the first moment I seen him I fell
instantly in love with
him.
i'm just curious... If you heard a man
talk about a woman like this, would the
proverbial red "stalker" flag go off in
your head, or would you think it was sweet
and romantic that he felt that way?
Pitterpatter hit the nail on the head(by
the way dr phil is a god everyone should
watch him)this guy needs to be in to you
and make you feel like a queen all of the
time. Learn to love yourself and realize
that his attention some of the time is not
ok it needs to be all of the time good luck
good luck