Lusciouskisses, not to be rude, but what in the hell are you talking about??? Yes some guys do change, but you shouldnt put up with crap just because the guy is your babys dad. You can only take so much without pputting your self-esteem and heart on the line. Nobody, and I mean nobody needs a man. You may need you family, you may need you friends, but nobody needs a man to survive. Especially one who mistreats you. Every girl deserves better than that. It is hard without a man, my mom worked 3 jobs while my sister had to watch my brother and I almost 24/7. We hardly got to see our mom, but she provided of, and raised a family without a man. So please, do not ever tell anyone, including youself, that you need a man.
Jordan,i am really sorry to be the one to say this but, you are being a brat. It's not that I don't support you and chris getting back together, its that I dont support you getting back together so fast. You couldn't wait another week to turn 18 so you could leave your mother's house on good terms? You had to hurt her and get kicked out of the house? I'm sure your mom would have supported you if you had taken things slower. Or maybe she sees something that you don't. Knows it is a bad idea for a good reason. How would you feel if jaydyn got pregnant, the guy landed in jail, hurt her and threatened her? And then wanted to make up when he got out? This is after you bopught jaydyns baby everything ok? And then she turns around and says screw u mom I am going with him. You wouldn't like that would you? You hurt you mom in the worst way jordan, you betrayed her. And you know what else I think? I think getting back together with chris is just about sex and getting you way. Otherwise I don't think you would have screwed him the first time you took jaydyn to see him, after swearing up and down you weren't even going to be nice. You have contradicted yourself again and again. I am a very supportive person, but I don't tell you what you want to hear. I tell whats real, and what I see and think. And I know you aren't going to like any of what you are reading, and I will get some nasty comments on it. Ut maybe it will get through that head of yours and make you think. What if you and chris get divorced? That gives him a little edge on getting custody of jaydyn. And if he works to provide for you two, and you don't, that gives him even more edge. Just think about it. Nobody here wants anything but the best for you. But I refuse to sit around watching almost everyone say it is ok when it isn't. It isn't ok to betray the only person who was there for you in what can be one the most difficult times of your life. Some people have bad families, who are mean and abuse them. But you didn't you had a loving and supportive mom and you screwed her over. Just don't forget, what goes around comes around, and I am a very firm believer in that.