Joined: 11 Jul 2004 Posts: 1218 Location: Washington state
I'm Happy For U Posted: 09-04-04 14:10pm
I just want to say I dont know u very well
but I think u should do whatever u feel is
right. Dont let anything these girls say
get to u. Do what ur heart says ur the
only one that can make decisions for
u!!!
Manda
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 09-04-04 15:14pm
medical answer it
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errrrrrrrrr im out I dont care anymore,
I really dont..Ill talk to who I need to
on yahoo...
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 09-04-04 15:45pm
Lusciouskisses, not to be rude, but what
in the hell are you talking about??? Yes
some guys do change, but you shouldnt put
up with crap just because the guy is your
babys dad. You can only take so much
without pputting your self-esteem and
heart on the line. Nobody, and I mean
nobody needs a man. You may need you
family, you may need you friends, but
nobody needs a man to survive. Especially
one who mistreats you. Every girl
deserves better than that. It is hard
without a man, my mom worked 3 jobs while
my sister had to watch my brother and I
almost 24/7. We hardly got to see our
mom, but she provided of, and raised a
family without a man. So please, do not
ever tell anyone, including youself, that
you need a man.
Jordan,i am really sorry to be the one to
say this but, you are being a brat. It's
not that I don't support you and chris
getting back together, its that I dont
support you getting back together so fast.
You couldn't wait another week to turn 18
so you could leave your mother's house on
good terms? You had to hurt her and get
kicked out of the house? I'm sure your
mom would have supported you if you had
taken things slower. Or maybe she sees
something that you don't. Knows it is a
bad idea for a good reason. How would you
feel if jaydyn got pregnant, the guy
landed in jail, hurt her and threatened
her? And then wanted to make up when he
got out? This is after you bopught
jaydyns baby everything ok? And then she
turns around and says screw u mom I am
going with him. You wouldn't like that
would you? You hurt you mom in the worst
way jordan, you betrayed her. And you
know what else I think? I think getting
back together with chris is just about sex
and getting you way. Otherwise I don't
think you would have screwed him the first
time you took jaydyn to see him, after
swearing up and down you weren't even
going to be nice. You have contradicted
yourself again and again. I am a very
supportive person, but I don't tell you
what you want to hear. I tell whats real,
and what I see and think. And I know you
aren't going to like any of what you are
reading, and I will get some nasty
comments on it. Ut maybe it will get
through that head of yours and make you
think. What if you and chris get
divorced? That gives him a little edge on
getting custody of jaydyn. And if he
works to provide for you two, and you
don't, that gives him even more edge.
Just think about it. Nobody here wants
anything but the best for you. But I
refuse to sit around watching almost
everyone say it is ok when it isn't. It
isn't ok to betray the only person who was
there for you in what can be one the most
difficult times of your life. Some people
have bad families, who are mean and abuse
them. But you didn't you had a loving and
supportive mom and you screwed her over.
Just don't forget, what goes around comes
around, and I am a very firm believer in
that.
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lusciouskiss16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Posts: 516 Location: Missouri
Posted: 09-04-04 15:55pm
kissybai912
wrote:
lusciouskisses, not to be
rude, but what in the hell are you talking
about??? Yes some guys do change, but
you shouldnt put up with crap just because
the guy is your babys dad. You can only
take so much without pputting your
self-esteem and heart on the line.
Nobody, and I mean nobody needs a man.
You may need you family, you may need you
friends, but nobody needs a man to
survive. Especially one who mistreats
you. Every girl deserves better than
that. It is hard without a man, my mom
worked 3 jobs while my sister had to watch
my brother and I almost 24/7. We hardly
got to see our mom, but she provided of,
and raised a family without a man. So
please, do not ever tell anyone, including
youself, that you need a
man.
did I say you need a man? No, I didnt. I
didnt tell her to go get hurt.. And to go
put her heart on the line. Her boyfriend
changed. He deserved a second chance
everyone does. Jaydyn deserves her
dad..My mom raised 6 kids on her own..And
we lived very nice. My parents divorced
when I was younger. Yeah..She didnt need
a man, but I needed a father. Every child
needs a father. You need to correct
yourself before posting caca I never
said..There is a huge difference between
needing a man and needing a father. Get
your facts straight. "not to be rude"
ash
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 09-04-04 15:59pm
lusciouskiss16
wrote:
jordan, I think you made the
right decision to get back with your
boyfriend. You and jaydyn deserve to be
happy. No matter how much tony has put
me through if he was to come back id take
him back. He is my babys dad and we
need him. Guys can change. It may
take awhile but it can happen. Jordan
is a mature women and she can make
descions on her own. We all know she
would never put jay in any harm.
Now..Your daughter does deserve her
grandma and hopefully your mom understands
now that you are gonna be a family and its
what you need. Hopefully she can be
happy for you now. I wish you luck
jordan..
Ash
my mistake, u said u needed you baby's
dad, but it is still saying u need a man.
I wasnt being rude, and I apologize for
coming off that way, but I was making a
point.
Chrissy~ita with the stuff to jordan. I
told her my piece already.
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lusciouskiss16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Posts: 516 Location: Missouri
Posted: 09-04-04 16:09pm
kissybai912
wrote:
lusciouskiss16
wrote:
jordan, I think you made the
right decision to get back with your
boyfriend. You and jaydyn deserve to
be happy. No matter how much tony has
put me through if he was to come back id
take him back. He is my babys dad and
we need him. Guys can change. It
may take awhile but it can happen.
Jordan is a mature women and she can make
descions on her own. We all know she
would never put jay in any harm.
Now..Your daughter does deserve her
grandma and hopefully your mom understands
now that you are gonna be a family and its
what you need. Hopefully she can be
happy for you now. I wish you luck
jordan..
Ash
my mistake, u said u needed you baby's
dad, but it is still saying u need a man.
I wasnt being rude, and I apologize for
coming off that way, but I was making a
point.
okay..Let me correct something..I dont
need tony..But I want tony..Happy? I was
just making my point.
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 09-04-04 16:16pm
Point taken.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 09-04-04 16:54pm
Just had to jump in here about kissy's
post. You are totally right! You do not
need a man and it is so refreshing to hear
a girl say that! Well, and mean it.
And no, every child does not need a
father. It is ideal, but in no way
necessary and thinking like that will only
hold you back and you will make decisions
based on that thought whether you realize
it or not.
I mean, yes, ideally every child will have
a mother and a father both of which are
mature, responsible, caring and just
wonderful! But that is not the real
world. And a child is much better off
with one good parent then with one good
parent and one who is a liar, cheater,
junky, abusive, disrespectful prick. So,
if the child's father is like this, then
the child is definately better of without
him!
so, if the child's father is
like this, then the child is definately
better of without
him!
amen!
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 09-04-04 17:59pm
I didnt really wanna get into this, but I
just thought I would state that my baby
daddy is deffinately not the kind of
person I would want to be the father
figure of my nathaniel. He is better
off without him...So although that feeling
of never having a father while he was
little will probably always be there.
He is still better off without him.
This thing can go both ways, while I think
a child will have problems relating to a
new father who wasnt around when he was a
child and may experience the effects of
never having his/her father around. I
still think that they are better off
without their father, or mother if the
mother or father is unfit. So yeah...
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
Posted: 09-04-04 18:13pm
First of all krissy your wise beyond your
years
i grew up without my dad he died when I
was very young. My mum worked her ass off
to give me everything I ever wanted. I
had a private school education and I had
ponies.
I dont know chris so I wont coment on him.
But jordan please be a little more
sympathetic on your mum. I think it's
great she phoned him.
I will tell you this no matter if my mum
was in the wrong and chris was cheeky to
her. He would be out on his arse more
quickly than I could punch him on the
nose. No questions asked.
People earn respect and trust. It doesnt
come back overnight.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 09-04-04 18:26pm
I dont get why u keep saying 'medical
answer it' to everything, wether their
supporting u or not. I likke u jordan but
I do think like krissy said, thats being
a brat. I didnt even say anything against
u or wrong actually. .And either did most
the girls (maybe not all) but their just
opinions. .And many have been supportive
and ur handling it wrong.
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 09-05-04 16:44pm
Sorry to drag this up but I havent been
around so dont know whats going on.Is
jordan ok? I can understand if no one
wants to tell me on here if it'll start a
fight so someone pm me
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-05-04 16:49pm
I have been gone for the weekend and I
have no idea what is happeing!! Someone
please tell me im so confused!! Jordan if
you ever need to talk im here I wont judge
you....
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 09-06-04 22:25pm
Jordan-i love ya girl...You know how I
feel about it. Do whatever makes you and
jaydyn happy damn it!!!! Im always here
for you no matter what the decision!