I just want to say I dont know u very well but I think u should do whatever u feel is right. Dont let anything these girls say get to u. Do what ur heart says ur the only one that can make decisions for u!!!

Manda

medical answer it

Neva mind

errrrrrrrrr im out I dont care anymore, I really dont..Ill talk to who I need to on yahoo...

Lusciouskisses, not to be rude, but what in the hell are you talking about??? Yes some guys do change, but you shouldnt put up with crap just because the guy is your babys dad. You can only take so much without pputting your self-esteem and heart on the line. Nobody, and I mean nobody needs a man. You may need you family, you may need you friends, but nobody needs a man to survive. Especially one who mistreats you. Every girl deserves better than that. It is hard without a man, my mom worked 3 jobs while my sister had to watch my brother and I almost 24/7. We hardly got to see our mom, but she provided of, and raised a family without a man. So please, do not ever tell anyone, including youself, that you need a man.

Jordan,i am really sorry to be the one to say this but, you are being a brat. It's not that I don't support you and chris getting back together, its that I dont support you getting back together so fast. You couldn't wait another week to turn 18 so you could leave your mother's house on good terms? You had to hurt her and get kicked out of the house? I'm sure your mom would have supported you if you had taken things slower. Or maybe she sees something that you don't. Knows it is a bad idea for a good reason. How would you feel if jaydyn got pregnant, the guy landed in jail, hurt her and threatened her? And then wanted to make up when he got out? This is after you bopught jaydyns baby everything ok? And then she turns around and says screw u mom I am going with him. You wouldn't like that would you? You hurt you mom in the worst way jordan, you betrayed her. And you know what else I think? I think getting back together with chris is just about sex and getting you way. Otherwise I don't think you would have screwed him the first time you took jaydyn to see him, after swearing up and down you weren't even going to be nice. You have contradicted yourself again and again. I am a very supportive person, but I don't tell you what you want to hear. I tell whats real, and what I see and think. And I know you aren't going to like any of what you are reading, and I will get some nasty comments on it. Ut maybe it will get through that head of yours and make you think. What if you and chris get divorced? That gives him a little edge on getting custody of jaydyn. And if he works to provide for you two, and you don't, that gives him even more edge. Just think about it. Nobody here wants anything but the best for you. But I refuse to sit around watching almost everyone say it is ok when it isn't. It isn't ok to betray the only person who was there for you in what can be one the most difficult times of your life. Some people have bad families, who are mean and abuse them. But you didn't you had a loving and supportive mom and you screwed her over. Just don't forget, what goes around comes around, and I am a very firm believer in that.

did I say you need a man? No, I didnt. I didnt tell her to go get hurt.. And to go put her heart on the line. Her boyfriend changed. He deserved a second chance everyone does. Jaydyn deserves her dad..My mom raised 6 kids on her own..And we lived very nice. My parents divorced when I was younger. Yeah..She didnt need a man, but I needed a father. Every child needs a father. You need to correct yourself before posting caca I never said..There is a huge difference between needing a man and needing a father. Get your facts straight. "not to be rude"

ash

my mistake, u said u needed you baby's dad, but it is still saying u need a man. I wasnt being rude, and I apologize for coming off that way, but I was making a point.

Chrissy~ita with the stuff to jordan. I told her my piece already.

okay..Let me correct something..I dont need tony..But I want tony..Happy? I was just making my point.

Point taken.

Just had to jump in here about kissy's post. You are totally right! You do not need a man and it is so refreshing to hear a girl say that! Well, and mean it.
And no, every child does not need a father. It is ideal, but in no way necessary and thinking like that will only hold you back and you will make decisions based on that thought whether you realize it or not.
I mean, yes, ideally every child will have a mother and a father both of which are mature, responsible, caring and just wonderful! But that is not the real world. And a child is much better off with one good parent then with one good parent and one who is a liar, cheater, junky, abusive, disrespectful prick. So, if the child's father is like this, then the child is definately better of without him!

amen!

I didnt really wanna get into this, but I just thought I would state that my baby daddy is deffinately not the kind of person I would want to be the father figure of my nathaniel. He is better off without him...So although that feeling of never having a father while he was little will probably always be there. He is still better off without him.

This thing can go both ways, while I think a child will have problems relating to a new father who wasnt around when he was a child and may experience the effects of never having his/her father around. I still think that they are better off without their father, or mother if the mother or father is unfit. So yeah...

First of all krissy your wise beyond your years

i grew up without my dad he died when I was very young. My mum worked her ass off to give me everything I ever wanted. I had a private school education and I had ponies.

I dont know chris so I wont coment on him. But jordan please be a little more sympathetic on your mum. I think it's great she phoned him.

I will tell you this no matter if my mum was in the wrong and chris was cheeky to her. He would be out on his arse more quickly than I could punch him on the nose. No questions asked.

People earn respect and trust. It doesnt come back overnight.

I dont get why u keep saying 'medical answer it' to everything, wether their supporting u or not. I likke u jordan but I do think like krissy said, thats being a brat. I didnt even say anything against u or wrong actually. .And either did most the girls (maybe not all) but their just opinions. .And many have been supportive and ur handling it wrong.

Sorry to drag this up but I havent been around so dont know whats going on.Is jordan ok? I can understand if no one wants to tell me on here if it'll start a fight so someone pm me

I have been gone for the weekend and I have no idea what is happeing!! Someone please tell me im so confused!! Jordan if you ever need to talk im here I wont judge you....

Jordan-i love ya girl...You know how I feel about it. Do whatever makes you and jaydyn happy damn it!!!! Im always here for you no matter what the decision!