I am a 23 year old female with early digenerative disc disease. After years and years of complaining I finally got an mri, that is when they diagnosed me with ddd. I was 7 years old when I first threw my back out and from that day, I have had nothing but problems. Spending the night at friends houses was always a nightmare. Most friends didn't have extra beds, so they would put me on the floor to sleep. Lying on the floor for about 5 minutes would make my legs go numb and I couldn't move from the waist down. I would end up going home or complaining all night long, most of my friends and their parents thought I was a whiner. As I got older it got worse, it ached all the time and it finally got to the point that no matter what I laid on, if I was on my back, my legs would go numb. So now that they know what is wrong with me, I thought I would finally get help. Oh no, it was quite the opposite. They told me that because of my age, they can't do anything for me. First of all I am "too young to have this problem", I agree...But I do have it and something needs to be done about it. Secondly, they won't do surgery to help me because I am too young. The natural course for my back right now is to have the two vertebre joined, but they don't want to speed up that process by removing the degenerated disc and fusing my vertebre together. So the other option would be disc replacement, but my Dr. Doesn't believe that there are any good replacement discs out there yet and wants me to wait about 10 years. I am glad my doctor doesn't want to waist my time with surgery if he doesn't think that what is out there is good enough, in a way I appreciate that. But, in the mean time...What am I suppose to do?! I am in so much pain and it does nothing but get worse. So the last option would be to help cover up the pain, they give me extra strength aleve, naproxem sodium. That is fine and dandy for some people, but after a year on that stuff it starts to tear up ones stomach. Plus they don't really work all that well. They won't give me any real pain killers because they are all narcotics, they said because of "my age" (i am really getting sick of that), they can't prescribe me narcotics because of possible addiction. So, does that mean after you reach a certain age, you get past the point of possible addiction? No! It can happen to anyone, at any age. But I am really tired of this run around, I want something done that will actually help me. Instead of, "here try this and see if it helps" and when it doesn't, then I get the "well I don't know what else to tell ya".
I have also been told to excercise to help build up strength around it. I have tried but then I usually end up in more pain than I was in before. It is all a catch 22.
So after that extreamly long explanation of my problem, here is my question(s). Does anyone have any advice? Is anyone going through this type of back problem? Has anyone had to try to jump though hoops to get help? And did you succeed? If so, how?
Oh, I do know that narcotics will work. My step mother has already had surgery for her back problem and is the only one who knows what I am going through. There for...She gives me some of her meds. The only thing is, they are morphine. I have been taking them for about a year now, but they are hers...I need something of my own. I need something to help me out until the Dr. Feels that it is finally my time for surgery.
Thank you for listening!
And thank you in advance for any advice!