Hey october 5th is my birthday! Well first, pulling out never has been and never will be a safe method. There is always a chance of precum. Seeing that you had sex on the 15th, it wasnt when you were ovulating so there is a chance you are not pregnant. You should check with your doc for an infection on the discharge and stuff. The symptoms could be a sign of your period. Because im telling you, I was like 3 weeks late and I would make jose breakfast and feel like puking, it hurt when I put a bra on, I had no energy, headaches...And I was like "i need to take a test!" so I got one and it was negative and the very next morning my period came, I was kinda sad but it was for the best. Since your period is due the fifth and if its not there by then (ill be having my cake!) then take a test....On a wednesday, so it can be late and youll find out. I know so many girls that experience all this and they never get pregnant, and they freak out all the time. Dont stress it though! Your stress will make it late. You need to focus on new things until then ok! Hopefully you arent but youll know in about 5 days. Just be patient ok! Goodluck, let us know the results! Maybe you should get on a birth control to be safe from now on.

Dear simone,

your period isn't quite due yet so don't panic too soon. At least wait and see if it actually comes first. Also, the withdrawal method is not a method, you could become pregnant even with pre cum. You said you are experiencing pressure in the lower abdomen or cramps, fatigue and sore or tender breasts, simone these are all common early symptoms of pregnancy. You really need to do a pregnancy test after oct. 5th if your period doesn't come. The slight brownish bleeding could be implantation bleeing, or the egg burrowing into the uteran lining. Have you considered birth control pills before ? If you are sexually active you really need to think about some kind of contraception, and also condoms to protect you from stds.

Take care,

.::suzy::.

I hope that you have a happy birthday. I mean if I were to get pregnant I wouldn't see it as a bad thing but still I wasn't expecting it. Thanks for your advice I will do just that chill, but the whole thing is even if I do get my period this month that does not mean that I can not be pregnant but at the same time I don't want to go and do something that I would regret in the end. Like smoke and drink and then 3 months down the line I find out that I am pregnant. When I had my first child I was 18 yrs old and I did not find out that I was pregnant until 2 1/2 months later.

Sweetie everything is going to be okay....I suggest that you go to the doctor.. There are clinics there free and confidentially......Just relax...Being stress might be bringing on the symptoms as well.....

Yeah if it comes and you are still worried, go take a blood test, those never fail. Thanks (about my birthday)!! I cant wait, im spending it with my family and nothing sounds better than being with them and going to dinner! Just see if its late and take a test! Good luck!!!

It's definetly possible.

Good luck,

jennifer

Thanks guys you all have been very helpful. I will definetly keep u guys posted.

I am still open to hear what anyone else wants to say, thank you

have fun on your birthday

Thanks!

The white discharge just may be a yeast infection, that may be why you have pain in the lower abdomen.

I have had many a yeast infections before from my previous pregnancy and I have never felt abdominal pressure before as a sign of yeast infection