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Q: Can't Do Oral Sex
asked by: bugbunny on August 30th, 2004
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Hi.
I am 28 male
i like a lot to do oral sex. I do it on my wife's. But unfortunately, she has a mouth too small to get my thing in. Mine is about 7 inches long. And my wife can't even get the top part in. Iam so much depressed . What can we do ? Pls help.

Is my penny too big. What's the average size ?

Pls reply
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TX_momy
replied on August 31st, 2004
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Whatever !!!!
Size dont matter if you know how to work it with.... Just buy some toys for you and her ..... Check the internet on adult toys !!!! Shocked

good luck and have fun :p
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oopoopoop
replied on September 2nd, 2004
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The length of your "thing" isn't what matters about whether it fits in the mouth or not, is it? Surely it's the diameter/circumference! I think if your wife can't even "get the top part in" then it's probably because she doesn't actually want to, unless maybe she's had her jaws wired shut. Have you discussed this with her? Maybe you could start with a bit of chocolate sauce, and just have her lick it off.

And I hate to burst your bubble, but 7 inches isn't particularly huge -- I think the average is really around 5.5 to 6 inches, from my recollection.
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PattyV
replied on September 3rd, 2004
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Oral loving can be many things,not just the woman engulfing the penis in her mouth.Yes,some can do this ,but everyone's different.Like poopoopoo said,try some different things to help her.Maybe she finds this distastful and just does not want to give you oral.Maybe she does have limitations in her jaw opening.Have her try licking and nibbling and using her hands instead of the deep throat approach.Maybe with some practice she might change your mind about oral !Patty
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pitterpatter
replied on September 3rd, 2004
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Maybe i'm an odd one, but i've never been able to do that. I find it totally disgusting. Maybe she feels that way too. I know some women are totally okay with it, but there's some like me who gag at the thought.
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2ferano
replied on September 4th, 2004
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She could be repulsed by it or it may just not fit in her mouth! You know, some men do have large penis'. My ex fiance's barely fit. And even though it did "fit" I really couldn't do much after it was in there. And I don't even consider him particularly big.
If it doesn't fit then there isn't anything that you can do. I mean, short of breaking her jaw. Sorry about your luck bud, but that is just the way you two are built and if it won't work it won't work.
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NYGUY
replied on September 7th, 2004
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I'm sorry but there is no way that it doesn't fit in her mouth. You are not that large and we are not talking about how deep she can take it. I am sure her mouth can open wide enough to fit in her mouth. Think about how wide your mouth can open! Unless you are as thick as the opening of a drinking glass, there is no reason that she cant do it. It is far more likely that she simply does not like doing it. I am about 8.5 inches long and kind of on the thick side and I have not met a girl who was unable to fit me in her mouth. I have however met some who do not like it and I would never press the issue.
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C-rose
replied on September 8th, 2004
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I think your penny is average. I don't really know what to say about your wifes mouth being to little. May be you should invest in a pocket vagina. I used to use it on my boyfriend sometimes when I wasn't to happy with him because I didn't want to spoil him by always giving him one of my best talents. It's not as good as the real thing . But its better than nothing. Surprised
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2ferano
replied on September 8th, 2004
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Sorry buddy, but yes it can be too big!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He said it was 7 inches long! He didn't say anything about how wide it is! And not all women have mouths like porno stars! I couldn't fit anything in my mouth that was half as wide as the top of a drinking glass!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry, you may be getting jealous or something, but don't dare say it isn't possible!!!!!!!!!! My friend just started dating a guy who she said there is no way in hell she could even begin to fit it into her mouth as it is huge! Some men do have very large penises. Yes, black or white!!!!!!!!
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NYGUY
replied on September 8th, 2004
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Hotasfrick... I am not talking about how deep she can take it... I am talking about width. He said that she cant fit it in her mouth. I find it hard to believe that any penis is that thick... And at the size he mentioned, I don't think it is that thick. Open your mouth real wide and tell me if you have ever encountered a penis larger than the diameter of your open mouth. I was simply saying that it was more likely that she does not enjoy doing it and that he maybe should not press the issue.

And as a side note, I have nothing to be jealous about and i'm not sure where that came from.
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2ferano
replied on September 9th, 2004
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I was only kidding about the jealousy part.
And I know you mean thick! Yes, there are penises that thick! We all don't have porn star mouths, and some men do have large penises.
It doesn't have to be a certain length to be really thick. You can have a four or five inch penis that is really huge in girth. This guy is 7 which is above average and could very well be too large for her to fit into her mouth.

I have had a penis that was almost too big to fit in my mouth. I listed that in my first reponse. And I have a friend who just started dating this guy whose is so big that no, she cannot fit it into her mouth. It is possible!
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tripleA
replied on September 9th, 2004
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Here's An Idea!
I love giving oral more than I like receiving it. But I have tmj, which sometimes can make opening my mouth wide enough difficult. But I have figured out a way that I can "give it" without using my mouth. Lotsof k-y and her hand. Kinda show her how to grip firmly around the shaft with lots of k-y while putting her other hand in a cupping shape over the top as she goes up and down. Does that make sense?! It drives my husband wild.
Triplea
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2ferano
replied on September 10th, 2004
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You mean give him a hand job instead?
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tripleA
replied on September 10th, 2004
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Yeah, that's the word I was looking for! Just figure out different ways to do it as oppose to a simple "hand job" it is a lot of fun trying different things! Wink
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PattyV
replied on September 10th, 2004
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Where there's a will there's a way!!!! Wink patty
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Demore
replied on September 30th, 2004
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Headway!
Yeah I think she just insecure about head in general. Some people have a fear of not being able to break, choking, or throwing up. As for my own opinion I don't see how a woman could stick a penis in her vagina and yet say gross when she puts it in her mouth! For christs sake the virgina is one of the cleanest parts in the body. And a bite from a human can cause infections! Go figure... I suggest if she really "can't" try just massaging with a combo of a handjob and some licking. If you can get her to go for your balls. If she can master that she might be able to work her self up to start on your head.
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cdj32
replied on October 11th, 2004
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My boyfriend is 9 inches and a very good size in diameter. I am able to get it into my mouth. I am not able to take his whole penis in my mouth, but I am at least able to move it around in there. I agree with most of the replies. It sounds like she doesn't really wanna do it for you. Try starting with something small like the one person said i.E. Chocolate sauce, whip cream etc. See how that works...
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2ferano
replied on October 11th, 2004
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I am sticking with the fact that if she can't do it, she can't do it. Why does she automatically just not want to?
Not all women have porn star mouths and not all men have small penises and therefore it is possible for it to just not fit!

But anywho, there is a big difference in putting it into your vagina and into your mouth. I mean if you really think about it you are putting something in your mouth that the guy pees out of. I mean, I have done oral and will do it if the guy really deserves it, but it really isn't the most hygenic thing in the world. It all comes down to everything else that has to do with sex. It is all a personal preference. But, it really isn't fair to say that she can, but just doesn't want to.
I have said it before and I will say it again. I have personally dated a guy whose penis did not and could not fit into my mouth. It really does happen!
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Daile
replied on October 13th, 2004
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It is possible that she doesn't want to perform oral sex, in which case I don't think starting off with food stuffs is a good idea. Talk to her about it!! It could be that she performed oral sex on a man before and he wasn't clean, etc. I know several guys who stopped performing oral sex after one smelly girl, so it's possible she feels the same way.

Also, it is entirely possible to not be able to give head. Lots of people can't do it for many reasons. Not only is there the possibility that it won't fit, but you also have to consider how her mouth is set up. If she has an incredibly sensitive gag reflex then even taking in a little bit of the penis could make her throw up. Knowing this, she may not want to try.

Daile
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Daile
replied on October 13th, 2004
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It is possible that she doesn't want to perform oral sex, in which case I don't think starting off with food stuffs is a good idea. Talk to her about it!! It could be that she performed oral sex on a man before and he wasn't clean, etc. I know several guys who stopped performing oral sex after one smelly girl, so it's possible she feels the same way.

Also, it is entirely possible to not be able to give head. Lots of people can't do it for many reasons. Not only is there the possibility that it won't fit, but you also have to consider how her mouth is set up. If she has an incredibly sensitive gag reflex then even taking in a little bit of the penis could make her throw up. Knowing this, she may not want to try.

Daile
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