How big are they? I knew a guy who was a *big* guy and he made his self esteem so high it was annoying! He was like, im so hot, look at my breasts they are about as big as yours nikki! I would laugh at him so much! But I think the only thing to do is to excersize and work out the pecs. Chest excersises. That will really shrink them, because robert started doing that and they got smaller and didnt even look like breasts anymore! I would always say, robert I cant play with them anymore! Because I would grab them all the time! But he needs to do them on a reg. Basis. And he will make them look hard and nice. Tell him constantly how good he looks, whistle at him when hes dressing...You have to build up his self esteem. Robert did it on his own and made himself to be like hes so hot even though hes big. The inside is what counts! Hope it helps!

Yeah just tell him to alot of chest exercises......It will form up....

Kaireejo,

try to get him to work out a bit to build up some muscle on his chest. I know that wont fix the problem, but it may help him with his esteem and self image, and slightly reduce the size. As long as you continue to tell him how much you love him, and how you find him attractive, that is important. He needs to hear that from you...The one person who loves him the most. There is always an option of wearing a tight shirt (to strap them down) beneith his regular clothes...Acting much like a sports bra we women would wear. Women think they have it tough all the time, but not many people stop to think about what men go through as well. Just support him (and make sure yours are always looking bigger than his!!)

good luck. :d

They are not huge like a women's. But they are as big as if he were heavy. He usually wears big baulky shirts plus an over shirt(button shirt) on top of that yet. It doesn't bother me, except that I know it bothers him. It doens't matter what other people think, he's my pride and joy. My love. But I can't seem to break through his low self esteem. I just don't know what to do. I tell him that he looks great. Cuz he does. I compliment him, but he doesn't seem to believe me. He has tried working out alittle. Mostly when he was in college and it was free. But he still had that problem.

Your help is greatly appreciated.

I don't believe any form of chest exercise will do any good to reduce the size of breasts in men.
The reason some men develop larger breasts is because of a lower testostosterone level or higher estrogen levels.

There are certain foods/herbs which promote estrogen levels (for example saw palmetto contains certain saponins which when taken in quantity will enlarge mens breasts)

i think you need to investigate herbs/supplements that promote higher testosterone levels.
For example: damiana, sarsaparilla, dhea etc. Etc. Do some research on the topic or consult your doctor about it. No sense in keeping a low self esteem when the problem can be corrected.

One other thing you can have him try is high intensity aerobic workouts.

If he works out (for example jogging) he will notice a difference because prolonged exercise will increase testosterone levels. As you can see, some women who exercise too much will build muscles and lose their breasts. The same applies to men.

Best of luck to you!

Thanks so much guys for your comments. I appreciate it greatly. It's just so hard to see him so down on himself when I can't do anything about it and he doesn't seem to accept my compliments.
Thanks again.

Kaireejo