I have no sex drive either, and its weird cause im in college. I definately dont think birth control helps...It made mine go down even more than it was a few months ago

I had that problem a few years ago I talked to my gyn about it.We've known each other over 20 years.He told me that loss of sex drive is 99% of the time psychological.He asked me if there were any issues with my hubby.I had to admit that I had felt somewhat neglected the last year due to his working a second job.I talked to my husband about this and 1 weekend a month is for us only.No calls,no one else,just us.This has helped greatly.I know with 4 kids this can be easier said than done.Even if you set aside an afternoon,just for the two of you.Communication is key.If you don't speak up.This matter will not go away on its own!Good luck.Patty