Hi pixie.
I've had the procedure (otoplasty) done twice.
It's done on an outpatient basis via day surgery.
The surgery itself is rather simple. It involves making one or two sutures in the back of the ear to form a crease that is missing in those of us born with this congenital anomaly (or congenital abnormality known as outstanding ears or bat ears).
You'll wear a huge bandage around your head for a week. This gives the sutures time to dissolve and keeps your ears pinned back.
With the bandage, you'll look like you've had brain surgery!!!
With the bandage, you'll only be able to sleep flat on your back.
I'm gonna warn you now, that your head will feel very heavy with that bandage around it.
You won't be able to wash your hair for a week.
When the bandage comes off only use baby shampoo on your hair for a while. Your ears will be sensitive to chemicals and varying temperatures so use lukewarm water to rinse. After a while you'll be able to use regular shampoo again.
Be careful after the bandage comes on when you wear glasses or sunglasses. Don't let the arms of the glasses press too hard on the back of your ears. That can cause the ear to pop out again. I had to have my right ear redone, because I wasn't too careful.
That's all I can tell you about the surgery.
If you have any questions, write back!!!
Good luck.
Jaime (aka dragonlady)