Umm...Oops I read the first page but not the 2nd...Good for you girlie

What are you doin' opening your legs at 14 anyway?
I am 16 and I just lost my virginity but we used condoms.
Why didn't you?
I am not trying to be mean but I really think you should have waited a little longer.
Do your parents know? If not you need to tell them so they an make you an ob/gyn appointment. Ok write back to me.
Good luck!
Skittles007!

You're only 2 years older. How is it that much difference?

We all know we should wait until we're married, but we don't. But you should use protection.

Jennifer

that is so true! My mom had me when she was 13 and went all the way through school. People will help you, and they may be upset at the beginning but they will realize you have to go through with this and they will help you. Dont go the abortion route its not right lots of love ~melissa

Skittles007 - dont' be harsh! We're all in the same situation just different ages!

Skittles has a point, only said it too bluntly. She is too young at 14 to be losing her adolescence like this. She is simply a little girl still. Its too bad but its also too late to worry about now.

I know she has a point and it is a good one but she needs to know how to give the news a little less hard. I have absolutley nothing againsty her and I wasn't tryin to start a fight I was just sayin...

Oh, no I didnt mean anything to you either. Dont worry about it!!! I know you werent tryin to start a fight! Its ok.

I am 21, and you being 16 I dont think you should be opening your legs either. That is not the way you should speak to anyone. There is a way you can voice your opinon without being so rude. I dont feel that anyone has the right to tell her that she shouldn't keep her baby. A baby is a gift from god, and my god never makes a mistake. He does everything on time. You may not think it is the right time. But it isn't up to us.

Good point too dionnemarie

exactly!

Well said.....

Very well said

Dionne:

i agree, that was very well said. None of us realize that nothing in our life is without god knowing about it before it even happens. After all, he created the world and us in it. He's way ahead of us. He's already thought of what will happen if we do this, and what the outcome is if we say this. How this person will take it. Pregnancies are not accidents. No baby is ever a mistake. Maybe the action is, but not that beautiful life that is growing inside of you. God brings life into this world and he takes it out. Not us.

Great advice dionne. Keep it up!
Carvytaph

Congrats! (even though life is hectic for you right now) I was just wondering if you weren't using protection, were using condoms, the condom broke etc. How did it happen?

I understand what your going through when I was 13yrs old I got pregnant and I did not feel bad about it I was happy. I ended up having a miscarriage and that made me think it was not my time. Don't anything stress u out everything is your choice and you would have live with it. It is all about what you want and if you can handle it. Keep ur head up and be strong there are people out here that understands u no matter what choice you make

Jess,

i was just wondering how you are doing? It's been a while!

Jennifer

Theres alot of harsh stuff ... But well said girls... Skittles, please grow up.... Some girls who are younger than you.. Are more mature .. And you prolly still immature about anything. Please dont do that again, thank you.... At least some some respect. No harm done.

Hi don't worry I am 16 and 13 weeks pregnant I thought I wouldn't be able to cope but now I am finding it easier. Before you tell people amke sure you are definitely pregnant and just remember take responsibility for your actions same to your boyfriend. You are lucky you have a boyfriend as I will be a single mum. You have to be prepared for the horrible looks and nasty comments but you will learn to ignore them I know I can now. All the best I know you will do right thing x x