Hey jordan

aw hun I am sorry ur mom has blown that way out of proprtion she shouldnt of done that to u n ur daughter she should support u n chris for tryin to work it out n for ur baby to have her dad in her life keep us updated hun

Hey its christina on alisons account ok??

Your mom did blow that one out of the water, but as long as you and jaydyn are somewhere safe and have a roof over your head thats good, and I completely understand about chris... And I bet tomorrow your mom calls and wants you and jaydyn back. Good luck hope chris gets that last payment soon.
Meagan

Lol my mo doesnt hav the number here--yea she flupped--i just woke up-its 756 am an im feedin j-j---write ore l8r

I dont know because im not a lawyer, but it does seem as though you are giving your mom the grounds to take jaydyn away. You took her away from her home, brought her into what could very well be an unstable environment, with a convict. And mind you she might let the court know exaclt what has gone on. He has been out of jail a couple weeks and you guys are already back together and you are living with his mom. Now I might be wrong, but I might not. Do you really want to find out? I understand that you love him, a little piece of me is always going to love dewitt. Because whether I like it or not, he was and still is and will always be a big part of my life, because we made a child together. But hun, I really think you need to be grateful for what you have because my bet is that chris and his mom will opnly support you for as long as you do things their way. And since they arfe supporting you, that might even give them a litte ground to try and take jaydyn, probably wouldnt happen but you never know. Jordan hun please think about what you are doing! Quit being so damn hard headed! I used to do the exact same thing and it got me nothing but an empty feeling. I used to love runnin wild doing whatever I wanted, and never listened to what people told me when they said I would regret it, but I do. I am ashamed of how immature and selfish I was to put my family through that hell, making them wonder if I was alright or if they would ever see me alove again. I really cant believe how heartless I was. Jordan, you are making a big mistake. And you know what? I bet that if you stay there, you are going to end up pregnant again. Then what the hell are you gonna do? I seriously seriously doubt chris is going to support two babies. He isnt even supporting one! I don't know what you are thinking, or whats going through your head, but think about this. "love is blind, but the neighbors aint" thats what my mom told me all the time. Know what it means? It means that you are so *in love* or infatuated, that you don't see all the bad stuff. What is really going on. But everyone around you does. We may not know chris like you do, but we all know how guys are and what will most likely become of this. Jordan I am begging you, call your mom, tell her you are sorry, and go back home where you belong.

Im sorry you got kicked out but I really dont blame her. And dont do anything to push to to want hr to take jaydyn away, because chrissy could be right.

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gaby

I'm with your mom and with chrissy on this one. Sorry huni. It hurts me to say that, but I am with your mom and chrissy.

Well, chrissy is right. Your mom does have grounds to take jaydyn now. I don't know if she meant it or not, but she does have the ammo to do it. It's basically just like chrissy said. She can, always say that you willingly took your daughter into an unstable environment, to be with your boyfriend, eventhough, he is her father. And not only that he is a convict, and has threatened you before. I'm almost sure by some past posts that she has even more to go on, but that is what I know for sure.

Chrissy is also, correct about chris, and his mom having grounds to take jaydyn. B/c now eventhough you live there, and you are her mother, him or his mom is basically jaydyn's sole support, unless you have a job.

Actually now that I have finished reading it, I totally agree with chrissy's whole post.

Trying to stand up for yourself is one thing, but chossing a guy who just got out of jail, and has threatened to take jaydyn away, is not a reason to push her away. I can't say for sure ,but from what I have read your mom has been your sole support through your pregnancy, and where was chris? Now since he is back in the picture you, are choosing him over your mom. And that is never a wise thing to do when you have a supportive mom.

But, what's done is done on that part. You felt you had to go sometime so you did. And that is something that we'll all have to do on day. But the thing is, you left your mom's to go live in someone else's house, and to have someone else to support you and your child. It would be a whole diff story if you had a nice job, with steady income ,so that you could have a place where your name is on the lease. But this? I am still with the father of my baby, and we are planning our wedding. But no matter what I wouldn't let my love for him cloud my judgement, or take away my common sense. I am not moving out of here until I have a place of my own, where my name is own the lease ,not his. So if push comes to shove, and someone has to leave, it won't be me and my baby out on the street.


Think of it like this, if chris or his mom, tries to put you out one day, and keep jaydyn there, there's is really nothing you can do. B/c if you call the police, they can say that you are her mother, but you are now homeless. And since he is her father, with a place to live the police will most likely let them keep little jay for the time being. And after that you have basically no control. After all like they say possesion is nine tenths of the law. If chris decided to move out of town and take jaydyn with him, there is nothing you could do. Just like when you were living with you mom, if you decide to move to another part of the country ,he could have done nothing. And if you ever wanted jaydyn back after that, you would have to go to court and fight a long hard battle. Sure you could give a judge all of these reasons that chris shouldn't have jaydyn, but a judge with some common sense would ask you, "well, if he is that bad, why in the world would you leave a safe place, like your mother's house to go be with him, and put your child in danger?"

i'll always be here if you need to talk, but I don't think this one was the best move to make.

Wow. Very good arguement girl!

I completely agree destiny.

Ok, any judge would look beyond the fact that chris is a convict and see him more as jaydyn's father than anything else. Are you girls trying to tell me that any grandmother/relative can sue for custody of any child of anyone who has been convicted of a crime and get custody? Jordan hasn't done sh|t that a judge would look down on her for! She moved in with her child's father. So what?! Every child deserves a father and a functional family, and that is what jordan is trying to do. If chris wasn't jaydyn's father it would be a completely different story, but chris has every right to custody of jaydyn that jordan does! Jordan's mother hasn't got sh|t on her and there's no way she could get custody.

That's our point. You said it yourself. Functional family.......... Is what jaydyn needs.............

Thanks erin..Keep in mind once more, I dont, I repeat..Do not live with chris!!! I live with his mom!


She didnt say she was gunna take her but she said if she ever found out that I wasnt taking cre of her properly(which I am!) then she would try...

Btw..We;re perfectly functional! Yall are acting like I moved into a crackhouse or something!

Jordan your mom isnt phycho, she loves you and shes not gonna sit by and watch you get hurt and throw everything away just for him. And btw yes every judge will not look at the fact that hes a father, but that hes a convicted felon on parole.

Ummm, jordan is the mother of her child and can take her wherever she sees fit! And taking the child out of a house that she was kicked out of and taking her to one where she will have full access to mom and dad and grandma......How does that give jordan's mom any grounds to take jaydyn away? Unless the judge is on crack that would never, ever happen.

Yes, I understand that your mom just cares about you and doesn't want you to get hurt, etc, but she crossed the line! What choice did you really have? She needs to grow the heck up and quit whining when she doesn't get her way! Good luck to you jordan.