Hey all. James called me on wednesday and said that he needed time to think about all this. James, the "supportive" boyfriend. We haven't spoken since then. I've talked to his mom several times, and she said that she can't get him to talk to her about it. I agreed to let him have a little space. I understand that it's hard to deal with all this since he is only 16, but what I don't understand, is why he isn't sure if he wants to be with me. He loves me, he's made that very clear, it's the responsibility that he's afraid of. So why is he questioning us? I don't understand all of this. If you guys don't see me for a few days, don't be surprised. I've been doing nothing but crying since wednesday, because this is draining everything out of me. I love him more than I could ever explain, and I can't stand being away from him. I'll try to keep you guys updated as best possible, i'm just having a really hard time right now.
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Aww, i'm so sorry sweety! I'm sure he'll come around, he's probably just scared. Chris got like that for awhile and now he is excited and wants to be around again. Dont psyche yourself out over it. You have to remember he is only 16 and he probably dosent think he is old enough to be going through this. Good luck with everything! And trust me, if your calm he will be too.
Him being scared is no reason, for him not to want to be with you. He'll have the responsibilty anyway. Jon is scared too. We just talked about that a few days ago, and so am i. It will be okay. Pm me sometime if you want to talk.
Hey everyone! :d james and I have talked, and it looks like we're going to be alright. He told me that he loves me, and he will be with me. He also apologized for running. He's having a hard time at school, because a lot of his peers are trying to give him advice... Which has mostly been, "run!". He said that he's had time to think, and that he doesn't care what they say, because he loves me, and he knows that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life, so he's prepared to take on this adventure with me. so i'm glad to give you all good news! I'll keep you guys updated!