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Q: Hoping I'm Pregnant.....
asked by: precious_45885 on October 1st, 2003
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Hi. I am 21 years old and I have two children. Me and my husband have been trying to have our last child for 1 year now. My last period was aug 29 and I had sex all through my fertile days. I now am 5 days late. I am afraid to go do a pregnancy test due to the fear of a negative result. What do you think? I have no symptoms other then eating alot and a like bit of sore breast. Please let me know if you think I am. I cant bring myself to get a test. Thank you
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Suzy
replied on October 1st, 2003
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Dear precious,

you have already had 2 children so you are probably more awre of what your body is doing than anyone. Sore breasts and frequent urination were the earliest symptoms I had, but everyone is different. When I had my first child I had no symptoms until I was 3 months pregnant, apart from no period. The fact that you are not using contaception, and having sex on your most fertile days, you have a very good chance of being pregnant. But unfortunately there is only one way to find out, so you might have to take the plunge and take that test. If your not pregnant yet, don't give up hope, as long as you are in good health you shouldn't have any problems, besides you have already proven you are able to have children, I think you will have your third before you know it.

Take care,

.::suzy::.
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precious_45885
replied on October 2nd, 2003
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Im Pregnant....
I took the test and it is postive. I am so happy right now. I peed on the test and walked around the house not wanting to look due to the fear of it being negative. Finally, I couldnt take it. And my husband doesnt know yet. Does anyone have any good way to surprise him. Let me know.....Waahhhhooooooooo

melanie
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nikki_caro
replied on October 2nd, 2003
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Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!
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precious_45885
replied on October 2nd, 2003
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Thank You
You know all I did was I dated my fertile day from the 12-15 and had sex every night on them days. After each time I had sex I layed still for 35 minutes and with a pillow under my butt so I was kind of elavated. It must of worked...Lol...Hope you guys can try this and have it work too. Also I heard if a women drinks 1 cup of tea a day it increases her chances of conception by like 40 percent. Thank you all for your opinions and god bless.

Melanie
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Suzy
replied on October 2nd, 2003
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Congratulations melanie, well done. Let us know what your hubby says when you tell him, would love to see the look on his face.

Good luck,

.::suzy::.
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precious_45885
replied on October 3rd, 2003
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I want to start by saying my husband was 28 when I met him. And had no children but tried all the time. He wanted a child bad but he thought he couldnt have any because he was older and hadn't had any yet. So when we got together I got pregnant two years later. His family wanted a paternity to prove it was his due to his age and we werent married. He didnt want me to. So when the baby was 1 month old I went to get the test without him knowing. I felt if I didnt I would never be aloud around his family again. They got the test back and should she was his. I think it made him feel better to know he really could have children.

Okay, so I went into the bedroom to wake him up with the test in my pocket. The lights stayed out and I went and layed next to him. I told him what I had done all day(he works 3rd) and acted completely normal. I then layed the test on his chest and he reached to see what it was. He tried to read it but couldnt cause he had no light. He asked so whats it say. And I said what do you think. He said your not are you. You would be more excited if you were and I would know right off. Right then my 4 year old walked in and turned on the light. He looked at the test and said your pregnant. Seriously you really are. And I said yes your going to be a daddy again. His eyes were hugh and the grin was from ear to ear. He grabbed me and kissed me and said its going to be a boy.....I laughed. He wants a boy so bad and this is our last child..Boy or girl. So I do hope the baby is a boy. But either way I will love them. He couldnt wait to go to work and let everyone know. Hes estatic. Thank you for the replies and I hope all goes well for you guys. God bless.

Melanie
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