My 'disgust' centers around the action of abortion itself, not the women who decide to have it performed.
National security advisor condoleeza rice, senator hillary clinton? Your all male dominated society theory no longer holds much water in the united states. There are much more women "in power" than there ever were before, and there is plenty of opportunity for women who would like to. And, since you expect all "pro-lifers" to single handidly care for every child saved from abortion, why don't you run for public office and change the balance if you care so much and feel that men still hold too much power?
How do you know that there arn't any "pro-life" people who are also anti-war? And I personally wouldn't call myself pro-war, but I realize it is sometimes necessary and can accomplish much good, i.E. Help defend and spread freedom & democracy.
The fetus is not part of the woman's body, it is in her body. While it is dependent upon the mother for the majority of the pregnancy, it is still a separate living being with it's own chromosomes, dna, blood type, etc...
"she is the only one who knows if she has the financial or situational capabilities to raise a child--in a healthy environment."
the woman is the only one? Really, a man would never be capable of determining that, how did the woman get pregnant? That is baloney, plenty of parents have raised numerous children without extraordinary financial capablity or situational capabilities. It's possible, abortion is the easy way out, even if it does save some misery, but you usually can't condemn a person to a life of misery before they are even born, but you can end that life before they are born.