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asked by: angel4ever on August 27th, 2004
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Hey girlz....I just wanted to make this post for the both of ya because I want u to know that I understand what youre going thru....No need for me to get into details about my own life right now, but trust me, I understand.
Jeni~ girl, if in your heart you really feel yall can give it anohter shot to make it work, by all means I support u. However, if u want things to b diffrent this time around, you have to show raven that u aint puttin up w/ no more crap...Right from the get-go! He is your baby's daddy and river deserves to have both a mommy and a daddy. I dont blame u at all for taking raven back and tryin to make it work....Just make sure raven is putting just as much effort as you are, ok?
Jordan~ I have already told u I understand about why your taking chris back. I do believe jail can change ppl....Its just that I still wish u would take it a lil more slow w/chris....If he's really gonna b there for u, he will wait for u!! I understand u wanna be w/ him and spend as much time as possible as a family w/ him and u and jaydyn, but huni, there is time for that in the future...
I kno u dont wanna hurt your mom, and I wish she would be a little more understanding about chris, but we all know she'd just reacting this way cause she cares about u and dosnt wanna see u hurt again. Are u sure u wanna cut off all ties w/ her at thispoint in time? I do wish u would wat a lil bit and see how chris does, a lil more...But i'm not going to judge you, honsestly.

I want u both to know that im here for u and I am really praying for the both of u that everything works out.
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Wings are blue
replied on August 27th, 2004
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I've been gone for like 2 weeks so I was pretty shocked to come back to this mess! Everyone is being so hard on these girls for taking their men back and saying you have a baby now and blah blah blah but these babies are the best reason for taking them back. They are the fathers of these 2 children and if they can work things out then that's the best thing. At least they are giving it another try if things don't work out they can at least say they tried for the childrens sake.
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bellax0x
replied on August 27th, 2004
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But where is jordan going to go if it doesnt work out?

We just want the best for these girls


<3
gaby
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smith8500
replied on August 27th, 2004
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Hey
No, no no. I totally understand her wanting to give chris another chance. I think the way she is doing it is wrong. The basically spittin in her moms face is wrong. I mean, it was "ok, I might bring jaydyn to see him" and the next day it was "i'm back with chris and we wanna get engaged". I mean, we all understand what jordan wants to do..... It's just..... Don't burn bridges in the meantime. And she has to understand where her mama is coming from. Just like she'd protect jaydyn from an abusive boyfriend, her mother wants to protect her..... It's a mothers instince to protect their young wether they are 10 or 70. So I just think she is moving too quickly and burning too many bridges......

As for jeni~i understand there too. I know how much she loves raven. I'm not saying she's horrible for taking him back. I just think that she went from crying and hating him to, well "he apologized so it's ok and i'm back with him". I think she is also moving too quickly for her own good and I think she's hurting more people then necessary in the process.


I love both of these girls. I support whatever they do. I just think they are going at it the wrong way.
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sweetsuzi
replied on August 28th, 2004
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Very well put chanda!!!
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KissyBai912
replied on August 28th, 2004
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I absoloutly agree chanda!
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bellax0x
replied on August 28th, 2004
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Yeah chanda that was very well put!

<3
gaby
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