Hey girlz....I just wanted to make this
post for the both of ya because I want u
to know that I understand what youre going
thru....No need for me to get into details
about my own life right now, but trust me,
I understand.
Jeni~ girl, if in your heart you really
feel yall can give it anohter shot to make
it work, by all means I support u.
However, if u want things to b diffrent
this time around, you have to show raven
that u aint puttin up w/ no more
crap...Right from the get-go! He is your
baby's daddy and river deserves to have
both a mommy and a daddy. I dont blame u
at all for taking raven back and tryin to
make it work....Just make sure raven is
putting just as much effort as you are,
ok?
Jordan~ I have already told u I understand
about why your taking chris back. I do
believe jail can change ppl....Its just
that I still wish u would take it a lil
more slow w/chris....If he's really gonna
b there for u, he will wait for u!! I
understand u wanna be w/ him and spend as
much time as possible as a family w/ him
and u and jaydyn, but huni, there is time
for that in the future...
I kno u dont wanna hurt your mom, and I
wish she would be a little more
understanding about chris, but we all know
she'd just reacting this way cause she
cares about u and dosnt wanna see u hurt
again. Are u sure u wanna cut off all
ties w/ her at thispoint in time? I do
wish u would wat a lil bit and see how
chris does, a lil more...But i'm not going
to judge you, honsestly.
I want u both to know that im here for u
and I am really praying for the both of u
that everything works out.
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Wings are blue
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2003 Posts: 435
Posted: 08-27-04 21:44pm
I've been gone for like 2 weeks so I was
pretty shocked to come back to this mess!
Everyone is being so hard on these girls
for taking their men back and saying you
have a baby now and blah blah blah but
these babies are the best reason for
taking them back. They are the fathers of
these 2 children and if they can work
things out then that's the best thing. At
least they are giving it another try if
things don't work out they can at least
say they tried for the childrens sake.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 08-27-04 21:49pm
But where is jordan going to go if it
doesnt work out?
No, no no. I totally understand her
wanting to give chris another chance. I
think the way she is doing it is wrong.
The basically spittin in her moms face is
wrong. I mean, it was "ok, I might bring
jaydyn to see him" and the next day it was
"i'm back with chris and we wanna get
engaged". I mean, we all understand what
jordan wants to do..... It's just.....
Don't burn bridges in the meantime. And
she has to understand where her mama is
coming from. Just like she'd protect
jaydyn from an abusive boyfriend, her
mother wants to protect her..... It's a
mothers instince to protect their young
wether they are 10 or 70. So I just think
she is moving too quickly and burning too
many bridges......
As for jeni~i understand there too. I
know how much she loves raven. I'm not
saying she's horrible for taking him back.
I just think that she went from crying
and hating him to, well "he apologized so
it's ok and i'm back with him". I think
she is also moving too quickly for her own
good and I think she's hurting more people
then necessary in the process.
I love both of these girls. I support
whatever they do. I just think they are
going at it the wrong way.
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
Posted: 08-28-04 04:12am
Very well put chanda!!!
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 08-28-04 09:00am
I absoloutly agree chanda!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
