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Q: My Mother She Wants River..................

asked by: Riversmommy on August 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Okay I get home early today to see my lil monkey.......I couldnt come home last nite how can I be a good mommy if I was pissed off and angry and just totally frustrated I couldnt be I knew river was safe so I called and checked up on him a couple times and I did as well when I got up this morning......Well I come home and my mom is going to try and get guardianship of him.....Im like exscuse me.....How am I an unfit mother I stayed away because I didnt want my son to see my like that I stayed away because I needed to clear my head and that be4 I could come and take care of him.....U guys im freaking out because she could get it pretty easily seeing as knowing her she will throw in neglect because of last nite knowing her she will say I cant take care of him because im not on my own and a bunch of other caca im scared to death I cant lose my baby I seriously cant girls I would die be4 I let anybody take him from me! What should I do?

Replies(17)

sweetangel

replied on August 26th, 2004

Experienced User

Talk to her hopefully shell understand and if she dosent fight it ti last point
good luck hun i'll keep u in my prayers

Michelle1337

replied on August 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I'm sorry sweety, I dont know what to say....I'll keep you in my prayers.

sweetsuzi

replied on August 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Jeni,

im so sorry she is putting you through this. Maybe shes trying to shock you out of seeing raven. Im sure it will be alright. You did the right thing last night. Yeah if you had left for weeks on end that might be a little bad, but not one night. Im here if ya want me

suzi

newlife

replied on August 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

How old are you? If she tries, all you have to do is show them that you are working, and going to school to get a career. And just explain that you didn't want to be upset around river, no parent should. Your mother won't win unless, there is overwhelming evidence proving that you are on drugs, hurting river, or something else that is that terrible. If your mother really thinks that she can get guardianship, just by saying that you are not out on your own, and that you didn't come home one night, after she put you out of the car, she is really folling herself. So don't worry just take care of your son, and keep working hard.

linuxChique

replied on August 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I don't think she's got a chance. The only thing she has against you is that you stayed out all night one night? No chance in he||. She has no right to him! Why couldn't any joe schmoe off the street decide he wanted to sue you for custody? That's ridiculous. I don't think you've got anything to worry about.

newlife

replied on August 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Ita erin

smith8500

replied on August 26th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Gosh. I'm sorry jeni. Call me.

tweety12986

replied on August 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Wow thats a tough situation try and talk to her calmly about the whole situation and if she still tries to take river away then I would say you get the hell outta there and try and find a place to crash.
Meagan and baby girl

MegEve

replied on August 26th, 2004

Experienced User

Huni, I am so sorry. You do not deserve to be going through this. You are the best mother to your son. He is a happy baby who has food in his belly, plays great, is happy, has a dry bottom, and is loved more than anything else in the world. You will not lose river. You are his mother and you take care of him, plain and simple. We all love you and are behind you 100%. Just let us know what we can do!

Love,
megan

bellax0x

replied on August 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Oh wow im so sorry that youre going thru this jeni! Hopefully you can talk to her and get through this!!

<3
gaby

insurancegirl

replied on August 27th, 2004

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Mesmerizeu15

replied on August 27th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I have to agree with jennifer. I dont think that you should have ever left river. I mean what if you were out on your own and got mad and didnt think that you could take care of your baby, would you have just left him. And excuse me but what if they two of you, who are supposed to be mature, would have gotten caught trespassing. The money that should be for river would have gone to fines. That was immature.

I am with your mother. Im sorry.

TiNaBo0314

replied on August 27th, 2004

Experienced User

I dont know what to say but good luck, I really hope everything works out for you for lil rivers sake. I dont think your mom has a chance but try and get a place on your own. Can you afford it where u are? Is raven willing to help with the rent?

KissyBai912

replied on August 28th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Sorry girl, I am with stacie and jennifer. I know what it is like to be frustrated and angry. Believe me I do. But I would not leave josh especially without asking my mo if it was ok that he stay with her. U have got to start thinking about the consequences of your actions. Why the hell do u think I havent beaten that girl down in my algebra class? Lol. I love u and I dont want your mom to have custody, but you need to start thinking more hun. Think about river not raven. At this point, raven shouldn't have any real significance in your choices after what he did to u. Take it slow and let him know what happened with your mom. If he really loves u, he will understand and back off for a while.

insurancegirl

replied on August 28th, 2004

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bellax0x

replied on August 28th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yeh im deff with chrissy!

<3
gaby

smith8500

replied on August 28th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

I feel wierd. Once again I am with chrissy! Lol. Chrissy write and I agree!! Laughing

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