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Riversmommy
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Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 711
Location: Springfield,Illinois
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Some of U Arent Going to Like This...............
Posted: 08-26-04 16:27pm
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Hey girls well...........When I got off
workmy mom and I got in a huge fight in
the van she told me 2 get out and walk
well I walked back up to work and a friend
of mine took to raven's wrestling where I
sat there for 4 and half hours waiting for
the wrestling to even open up in the rain
mind u.....Well raven shows up the girl is
there too well we made him choose once and
for all wat he wanted he told her that
something was tearing him apart and that
he couldnt be w/ her........Well she texts
him later I have the phone and she said
she is bleeding so she went to the
hospital she had a miscarriage......She
also decided to move to jordan as in the
country w/ her 3 boys......I stayed w/
raven last nite in an abandoned building
no lie.......We talked,talked,talked,and
talked somemore we are going to try to
make things work he knows I dont trust him
and its going to be a long time till I do
again......He is not going out anymore
nothing he is on a tight tight tight leash
as tight as u can get it almost choking
thats how tight it is......But were taking
it slow starting from the beginning making
sure we dont make the same mistakes as we
did be4.......I kno some of u arent going
to like this but hes rivers daddy and he
does love me and I do love him....So im
giving it one more shot! Thanks girls for
saying those things cheered me up I love u
girls!
Jen
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nikki_caro
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Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 08-26-04 16:34pm
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Jeni nooooo!!!!! Why are you taking him
back? If it was real love he would have
never slept with her!!!!! Ughhhh!!!!!!!!
Well I wish u luck then. But once a dog
always a dog
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-26-04 16:42pm
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Im definetly not one to talk..Lol all I
can say is good luck
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 08-26-04 16:50pm
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I just called your house! Your mom said
you were sleeping! what?
Um, ok. Well, I don't think the chic was
preggy at all. And I think you are dumb
for taking him back. He's a incredibly
loser who cheated on you. You know better
than this jeni.
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 08-26-04 16:52pm
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Wow, good luck jeni! Kevin had cheated on
me in the past (i was pregnant at the
time, but did not know it, lol I was like
10 days pregnant) and he told me about it,
and said he was really sorry and regreted
it. He told me that it was something that
made him realize how much I really mean to
him. Maybe raven realized the same?
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sweetsuzi
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Joined: 11 May 2004
Posts: 831
Location: Bonny Scotland
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bellax0x
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Posted: 08-26-04 16:56pm
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I dont think its smart but I would do the
same tihgn with jay so im not going to
yell at you. Good luck!
<3
gaby
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Riversmommy
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Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 711
Location: Springfield,Illinois
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Posted: 08-26-04 17:03pm
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April thats exactly wat he said he said it
was tearing him apart inside that he
realized how much he really loves me and
how much he really f***ed up and regretted
it! I told him no vagina for awhile lol!
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little_woman
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Posts: 765
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Posted: 08-26-04 17:04pm
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Please be careful jen but keep that guy on
a short leash, and I hope everything works
out for you two but if he does anything to
you or river again I say let nikki hit him
with the car
meg
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 08-26-04 17:39pm
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Oh jen huni I don't know what to say I
really don't. We don't want to see you
hurt & he hurt you that's for sure.
He slept with another woman & made her
pregnant & that's serious.
But
this is your life & it's up to you to
choose what will make you & the river
the happiest but choose wisely. You are
gonna have to keep on such a tight leash
that he can't caca on his own! And you
should take his phone off him & make
him get a job to support you & his
son.Make him pay hun
luv ya hun x
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newlife
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Joined: 13 Jun 2004
Posts: 874
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Posted: 08-26-04 17:41pm
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Okay, well you know i'm pissed, but do
what you have to. Just l;isten ,he may
know that you don't trust him but that
doesn't count for much. Don't show him
any affection at all, don't give him
gifts, and don't take care of him. After
doing this for a while, if he is still
there he may be serious. But please be
careful.
Ohh and I agree with chanda about the girl
not being preggy. I think she may just
have said that to try to keep him. It is
just a little fishy, that she would
miscarry right after he choose you.
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KissyBai912
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Posted: 08-26-04 17:48pm
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I am most definitely with chanda and
nikki. Jeni hun, you aren't going to take
it slow. I guarantee it. Know how I
know? You already took him back! After
only 1 day! Girl I am telling you, men
don't change unless they want too! And he
all of a sudden decides that he wants to
be with you? I think that you really need
to sit back and think about this. Did you
guys read anything about what I went
through with dewitt? About all the lies
and empty promises? I'm sorry jeni but
this is wrong. What kind of example is
raven setting for river? I understand
that he is his daddy, but make him play
daddy in every aspect. Financially,
physically, and emotionally. Not just
when he feels like it. If he really cared
about river and u he never would have done
it in the first place hun. You know I
love you and I am so sorry but I am
completely against this. Good luck to you
guys.
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Michelle1337
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Joined: 04 Aug 2004
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Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 08-26-04 18:56pm
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Congrats girly! I know exactly how you
feel and i'm glad your willing to fight to
make it work. Who said relationships
dont have issues? If both of you fight
to make it work it will. And I know,
from experience, that I would hate myself
if I didnt try. I wish the best of luck!
And i'll pray that everything works out
for you two. Good luck!!
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sweetsuzi
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Joined: 11 May 2004
Posts: 831
Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 08-26-04 19:48pm
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Nobodies relationships are perfect I
guess. We just dont want you and river to
get hurt in the long run.
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newlife
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Posts: 874
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 08-26-04 23:26pm
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Chrissy, im not trying to start anything
but ok my dad cheated on my mom...
Several times... Are you saying that
means he didnt really care about me? Guys
do stupid crap- maybe raven is being
truthful about how he realized what she
means to him. Sometimes that is what it
takes to open a guys eyes. He may have
been in his own world for the past 2
months ~ thinkin it was ok ~ but when
reality hit, and she left him, he may have
realized he is loosing the best thing that
has ever happened to him.
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2ferano
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Posted: 08-26-04 23:50pm
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I wish you all of the luck in the world
girl.
Just keep your eyes open and the second he
starts his old crap get out! He may have
changed, it does happen every once in a
blue moon, but if he didn't pay attention
and get out!
Good luck though. Just know that there
is someone out there who will love and
care for you and not cheat, etc!
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babyrae
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Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 08-27-04 00:15am
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Awww jeni no  I dont wanna see u
go thru this pain again! What if he does
it again? I know ur trying to keep ur
family together and thats good of u to
think like that and try again... But what
if he hurts u? Plz be careful jeni...Plz
shauna
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 08-27-04 08:40am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-17-04 17:17pm; edited 1 time in total
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bellax0x
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Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 08-27-04 08:50am
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Im with newlife. Dont show him any
affection or anything. He's got to
understand why youre doing it so he
shouldnt get upset, and if he stays with
you then hes prolly serious
<3
gaby
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