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Q: Is My Girl Friend Pregnant?? Help!!
asked by: pk1733 on August 25th, 2004
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My girlfriend and I didn't really have sex before(did attempt without condom but nothing never come out of me) that happened about 3 times and each time didn't last more than 5 mins, 2 weeks before her period, she found there were blood in her pee, and she once told me her stomach hurts after the first day I attemped to have sex with her, and it was hurting in the next morning, and after seeing blood in her pee, we are afraid that she is pregnant. Her mom told her it might be cause of lack of sleep or lack of eating...Since she rarly eat and havn't be get enough sleep lately...Please help to see if she is pregnant or it's just her period, thanks
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silverlou
replied on August 25th, 2004
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Use birth control if you don't want to get your girlfriend pregnant. What you described can result in pregnancy. It doesn't matter if you don't think anything came out of you while you were in her, there is something called pre-ejaculate which leaks out, you may not even notice it, and there are enough sperm in there to cause pregnancy.

As for the symptoms your girlfriend is experiencing, they sound more like bladder infection symptoms than they do pregnancy or period symptoms. If it is a bladder infection she needs to see a doctor to verify and give her antibiotics. Either way, if there's blood in her urine, tell her to go see a doctor.

And if you don't want to get her pregnant, use birth control, always.
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PattyV
replied on August 25th, 2004
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Pk,you and your honey are playing russian roulette.Pre-ejaculate has sperm in it.All it takes is one little swimmer to penetrate the egg.Your girlfriend needs to see a doctor for the blood in the urine and to have a gyn exam to make sure she's not pregnant.She can discuss birth control options at that visit.No birth control method is 100%,so use a condom as well,just to be sure.Good luck to both of you.Patty
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freemanashley
replied on August 25th, 2004
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Sounds like she may have a uti (urianary tract infection) which you can get from having a new sexual partner. Just relax...
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pk1733
replied on August 25th, 2004
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Thanks guys, and one more thing, I have also put my finger in her, would that be the cause of infection? And I was just wondering...Is is possible that it was becoz she had lost her virginity? From first attempt to having blood in her pee, was within a week that things happened..
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PattyV
replied on August 25th, 2004
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Only if your hands were dirty.You two need to check out some birth control sites.The one here is pretty good or the planned parenthood site is excellent.I doubt losing her virginity would make her bleed a week later.If she finds intercourse too painful,she should see a doctor.Patty
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pk1733
replied on August 26th, 2004
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Not sure if my hand was dirty..But as for the pre-ejaculate, first, I don't know what exactly that is...Sorry, is that the water-like clear stuff? Well I asked my gf, she said my "thing" wasn't really that deep inside..So not sure if any eggs were penetrated...She said she only peed blood twice and it all happened within an hour in one nite, and its now 5 days after, she havn't seen any blood anymore...I really hope it was only blood from breaking her virginity thing...Thanks guys!
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NYGUY
replied on August 26th, 2004
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but as for the pre-ejaculate, first, I don't know what exactly that is...Sorry, is that the water-like clear stuff? Well I asked my gf, she said my "thing" wasn't really that deep inside..So not sure if any eggs were penetrated...


ok this concerns me. Especially the part about penetration of eggs. I highly suggest you become much more informed about the act of sex and how a baby is made before having any further sexual relations.
God speed and good luck.
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pk1733
replied on August 26th, 2004
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Ya, I know....I will definately learn more about this things before I do anything again....I just thought as long as the white stuff don't get inside and thats ok....But I will definately put safety in the first place after all this.....Can anyone please tell me what exactly is going on with my gf? Thanks, your answer is appreciated!
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2ferano
replied on August 26th, 2004
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You already got several suggestions as to what is wrong with your girlfriend.
First of all, pregnancy does not cause blood in pee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is something wrong with her bladder, kidneys (probably some kind of infection)

secondly, if you do not know what pre-cum is then you should not be sexually active!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pre-cum is just that, pre-cum. And yes, it can cause pregnancy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Also, it doesn't matter how "deep you are in."
you two need to take sex ed or something and maybe consider being sexually active after you know how babies are made.
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pk1733
replied on August 27th, 2004
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Alright thanks
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