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TiNaBo0314
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Location: Maryland
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I Wish Kaelyn Had a Daddy :(
Posted: 08-24-04 22:31pm
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Well it's been 8 weeks (thursday) since
kaelyn has been born and her dad hasn't
seen her since she was 2 days old. He is
saying that the "dates don't match up" I
wish he would just take me to maury cuz I
know that he is kaelyn's father. Why is
it so easy for men to just brush off their
responsibilities and in the mean time make
us look like trash ughh I am so upset,
kaelyn doesn't know him, hasn't bonded
with him and at first I didn't care but
now I just really want her to have a
daddy. I have an appt. With the states
attorney to discuss my case against him
for child support but then we have to go
get a paternity test and that just makes
the process that much longer ya know.. I
want him to know now I just wish there was
an easier way! By the time we establish
paternity I feel like it'll be too late,
she may be scarred for life =( what am I
supposed to do, i've sent him emails with
pix and I sent a long letter and I have
given him so many chances to see her, now
he is at college and wont be coming home
until thanksgiving....This sux. I have to
do this by myself and he got off easy.
When I was in the hospital and before I
had her, he sed he would be there, so did
his family. She is so beautiful, honestly
if I was him i'd be showing her off!!
Sory I just wanted to vent lol!! I been
wanting to do that since she was born but
had no one to tell!
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linuxChique
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Posted: 08-24-04 22:37pm
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Don't worry! If all the other girls on
here can be such great mommies with little
or no help from their sperm donors, you
can too! Women are stronger than men in
many aspects. We're built for parenthood.
You can do it! And if you need us to,
we'll help!
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TiNaBo0314
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: Maryland
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Posted: 08-24-04 22:43pm
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Thx erin  im surprised I do
as well as I do, with no help from him.
If he did come back , i'd have no use for
him lol
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
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Location: OHIO
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Posted: 08-24-04 22:50pm
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I agree with erin...
If you did it for 8 weeks, what makes you
think you can't do it longer?
My baby daddy didn't start "really" coming
around until my daughter was 1. Trust,
you can do it! You have support from us
and your family as well!
Good luck!
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TiNaBo0314
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Location: Maryland
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Posted: 08-24-04 23:19pm
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Yea I know I could do it longer, sometimes
ya just need a lil break ya know?! Lol I
wish I could just have a day to myself
after 8 weeks lol
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tweety12986
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Posted: 08-24-04 23:46pm
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Forget that dude... You can take him to
maury... Dont wait for him to do it cuz
he probably won't... Most of the time men
know they are the father and just like to
stall or show out... Dont pay him any
mind and you just take care of your
daughter.
Meagan
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bd1012
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Posted: 08-24-04 23:47pm
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Yeah. Maury has nothing but pat test
exams. Ashame, so many times I wish I
could see something different on that show
but I have stopped watching it
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KariM1804
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Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 08-25-04 10:32am
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Hun dont worry iwent through the same
thing. He didnt believe me either, welll
he thought it was his but he 'wasnt sure'.
.Although he was better about it and seen
garret when he was born and visited him
alot until the test came back. The test
came back and it was of course his. .But
dont worry and think it will be 'too late'
because it only takes 2 weeks for a
paternity test to come back*
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newlife
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:14am
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Why don't you get go get your own
paternity test? Usually they are about
$500, but at this time of the year most of
them have discounts. And it only takes 2
or 3 days to get the results back. In
some states if he doesn't want to take the
test, he can be ordered to, and if not a
judge can find that he is the father b/c
he doesn't want to take the test, unless
he has religous reasons not to. To tell
you the truth I hate when people go on
maury for a paternity test. People just
put their business in the street, and
everyone comes out looking stupid to me
whether they proved their point or not. I
don't think they realize that reruns go on
for a long time, and their children may
have to see that. I would pay thousands
to take a paternity test, rather than do
it on television. But good luck.
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TiNaBo0314
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 272
Location: Maryland
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:25am
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Lol I wish I had 500$ just laying around..
I have to go thru the child support
office and they do it for free but the
appt takes a lil while to get..
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newlife
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:33am
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Is he willing to take the test.
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linuxChique
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:34am
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Well if you're sure he's the dad, then
he'll have to pay for it if a judge makes
him take it. Of course, if it turns out
he's not the dad, you have to pay for it.
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yakeenmami
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:34am
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Dont worry you are not by yourself. I am
38 weeks preg and my childs father has
been denying him through my whole
pregnancy. I'm just waiting until the
baby to come so we can take a trip to
court cause he not getting away with this
and dont let your childs father get away
either.
Good luck
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TiNaBo0314
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 272
Location: Maryland
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:37am
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Yea he is willing to take the test but he
is in college at west virginia university
and he plays football for them so he can't
come home until thanksgiving break...So I
dont know what they would do about that,
but yea he says he wants to take the test
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:39am
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You said at the beginning I wish he would
just take me to maury. Why dont you take
him to maury. Tell maury how everything
is, and how tough everything has been for
you, and then you dont have to pay for the
paternity results, because they cost a
fortune and maury would do that for you.
I think it is worth a shot.
Plus, maybe your baby will get a gift or
something.
stacie
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TiNaBo0314
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: Maryland
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:53am
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Lol well I wish I had the nerve to do
that, maybe he would buy me a house or a
car or something lol that would be great
but I think i'd be embarassed to go on
stage in front of ppl and have him talk
mjor sh*t about me (like all those men do)
he'd be like christina-im not the father
of your baby, get it straight your a liar
and a wh*re and when the test comes back
that im not kaelyns daddy I want u to
leave me the hell alone lol even tho he
knows he was the only guy I slept with
*(&%@* god I hate men
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 08-25-04 11:59am
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Christina was on maury??
You need not worry what other people say
about you, because in the end who will
look like the health question. And feel
like the health question for doubting such
a beauty
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TiNaBo0314
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: Maryland
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Posted: 08-25-04 12:03pm
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Lol noo I was saying what he would say
about me if he went on there (u know how
they interview the men and there like here
is what so and so has to say and then they
talk all that sh*t about there babies
mamas
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 08-25-04 12:06pm
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W.H.O cares. You should not suffer, and
not get caca from him because he doesnt
want to step up. How are you going to get
child support or anything if he says that
he is not the father, you have to get a
paternity test. That is his child and he
is going to feel damn stupid when you pull
him on maury and you are like this is your
child, and it is proven. He is going to
be so shook up I bet because he is missing
out on bonding with that baby and
everything. I think you shouldnt worry
abotu what he is going to say about you
because 90% of the time the audience sides
with the mother anyway and just boo and
the person. I wish you the best but I
really must go now.
Call me if you need someone to talk to.
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TiNaBo0314
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 08-25-04 12:16pm
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Lol yea I agree im thinking about calling
right now lol hmmm i'll have to wait till
tomorrow I missed it today =(
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