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Michelle1337 Extremely eHealthy
August 24th, 2004
He cant seem to make up his mind...One second everything is great and we have plans to hang out and stuff. He actually cares! And then the next he gives me the cold shoulder and decides hes going to go somewhere else? Is that fair? He told me to call him at 5:30 which is now, and we would go do something tonight. So I did, and he is at a volleyball game with this really annoying girl jen from his work. Is it wrong for me to keep hoping that things will get better? He seems to be living a double life. When he is away from his friends everthing is cool but as soon as he is with them he hates me..Which is exactly how he treated me on the phone. Should I continue to put myself through this?
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babyrae
replied August 24th, 2004
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No u dont deserve to be going thru this. I know its so hard on u but he acts like hes got all the freedom in the world and can play with ur heart. U should show him that he cant get away with that! Its nto fair to u at all and u shouldbt put up wit him if he keeps doing this to u! I hate seeing girls go thru this... I hope he smartens up tho and realizes hes havin a baby...

Shauna
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tweety12986
replied August 24th, 2004
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Its ok michelle just wait until it hits him he's gonna be a father and then he will have a new lease on life.
Meagan
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Michelle1337
replied August 24th, 2004
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Thanks guys...I litterally broke down in my room a minute ago...Sometimes you just need to rant, know what I mean?
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linuxChique
replied August 24th, 2004
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Maybe you should just ignore him until he realizes that you aren't at his beckon call.
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Michelle1337
replied August 24th, 2004
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I think I might, ihad started to do that, but then he called me...Maybe I just wont pick up
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sweetsuzi
replied August 24th, 2004
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Be cool about this...... It might be hard. I remember breaking up with chris and I flung my phone at the wall and it broke ( temper tantrum). It was actually really good I couldnt text him or phone him my mum literally tackeld my to the ground lol.

Within days he was phoning back beggin for mercy ha ha ha ha ha

i htink your man is having is cake and eating it, arsehole!!! Stay away from him until he gets a life!!
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Michelle1337
replied August 24th, 2004
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Thats a good idea. Thanks guys. I really appreciate it Smile

tonight, I gonna tell him that he cant have it both ways. And then I gonna tell him to leave me alone until he grows up. Lol. And then...If he dosent call back...His loss!
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lauren22
replied August 24th, 2004
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I agree with what everyone has said! I'm sorry you are having to go through this, but I know you are going to come through it all! Its so wierd to me that these guys dont show you guys more respect. It takes 2 to make a baby, and then they think its ok to run off and "play" while you girls to all the work! Craziness! Hang in there girl, you are gonna be fine with or without him!
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