Jordan ~ I totallu inderstand your logic...If u didnt try, you would spend the rest of your life wondering if it would have worked. Like I said be4, tho, pleeeeeze take it as slow as u can....And good luck, hun!

Wow. How is your mother dealing?
Always,
chanda

Lol, chanda...My mom doesnt know quite yet..Shes at work..She doesnt get off for another three or four hours..She wont say too much though, I know..Shes quiet when I talk about him...

Well, good luck, I guess. He's been in prison so he dosent' have the best rep. I can see why your mom would get a lil upset. Good luck and be careful.

Take it slow and be careful and the both of you need to remember that this is for jaydyn. And also for you too obviously. Make sure this starts off as a healthy relationship. Just follow your heart. ~ erica.

I kno and I understand completely but I have to give it another shot, and shes gota b able to understand that somewhere inside her....

Erica, get on yahoo plz.

Jordan, I totally understand. If I were you i'd probably give it another try too, but don't let your guard down just yet.

Good luck jordan! I hope he really has changed and that this works for you!

Thanx yall! I really appreciate it-- I kno when nikki sees this shes gunna kill me

Well, if u think its gonna work, then by all means congrats. It is good tho for jaydyn, giving her a chance for a family. I hope u dont get hurt but if it works out, im happy for u

shauna

Your making a big mistake. No one changes from prison no matter how long they sit there. He wasnt there for being a good citizen. This is a way for him out of child support and having to go to court. If he wants to play daddy for 1, why cant he for the other one? Jordan your only 17 you think this is best when its not. Your still young and you just dont know. I thought you were gonna go to church and read the bible? What happened to not having sex til u were married? Looks like that leaf you turned over, turned back around and bit u in the a$$

Yeah I don't know your situation as well as nikki but I do think she's right.A while ago you practically hated him & you were gonna make a great new start-i just hope that this doesn't set you & jaydyn back

First off noone knows where alicia and noah are...He in fact, does wanna see noah(i learned this yesterday), but he wants to get custody of him b/c shes an "unfit and unstable" mother..But I dont think he should do that though..Even though she is unfit and unstable...

...Court was in my hands, and I decided against it b/c I dont twanna spend the next six months in and out of court....

...I havent been readin the bible and going to church in a while(beforei even started talking to him)...I dunnoh what happened wit that...

....If its my mistake, I have to make it myself...But I dont think its a mistake...

Ppl. In my situation can relate, but nikki, u gota husband a house a job, u arent exactly in my shoes...

....I have to deal with these curveballs ive been thrown and this is how im doing it....

I dont have to be in your shoes to understand. I saw what my sister went through. I predicted this for you already remember? I told u when hes out your gonna fall for him and want him back. The only reason im not in your situation is because I avoided making mistakes. Your mom knows best jordan, but if you need to learn the hard way then fine. But if you get pregnant again and he does something to go back to jail.. Well then cant say we didnt warn you.

Good for you jordan!!! :d ~ erica.

I find myself to be pretty understanding, espically after how much I let josh do to me before I finally got the courage to leave him for good. I totally understand that you are going to do what you want, the way you want, when you want. I just hope you realize now, that it'll affect more than just you if it dosen't work this time around. It'll affect your daughter too. Good luck either way. I truly hope you don't end up regretting this.

Either descision I make is gonna affect her..She may b pissed when she gets older to find out that I didnt wanna try with her daddy to b a family again if I didnt get bck with him...Every descision has different outcomes...Thanks for bein understanding. I have to try

Jordan hun, sorry but I have to agree with chanda, nikki and liz. I think this is a bad idea and a big mistake. I was in your shoes remember? I thought dewitt was wonderful and that he had changed (stupid me) but he hadn't. And I seriously seriously doubt that chris has. What was he in jail for? And after he said all those bad things to you? I know you want him in jaydyn's life but I don't think you guys should be together! You know it would make it that much easier for him to get custody if you guys break up again? I hope things go well for you but I am just telling you, I think this a really really really bad idea.