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Q: Satisfying Your Partner

asked by: Maine3150 on August 23rd, 2004

New User

I love my boyfriend but I have had to deal with him having a fast ejaculation during our two year relationship. I had been used to having a much longer sexual experience. In the past six months it has been worst. I thought it might have something to do with stress or is it that he was never experienced in making sure that his partner is happy. I am wondering how to let him know that he is not satisfying me sexually without being hurtful. I have brought it up before in a round about way and he said that he was listening but he seems to try and then we are right back from where we started.

Replies(4)

bigkahuna

replied on August 30th, 2004

New User

Does he seem like he's only trying to get off to pleasure himself?

For me (male,31), I do like to get off for myself but really enjoy making my girlfriend feel good; where it includes manual stimulation or whatever.
When your boyfriend is done, couldn't he stimulate you another way?
Or maybe even bring toys into the relationship; if he's open to that...

I've heard that masturbation before sex can also extend the time to reach and orgasm...

wazzywoman4ever

replied on August 14th, 2007

Experienced User

the Round About Only

makes the miscommunication drag on nail it down and discuss it and start to enjoy the sex again best wishes .......Wazzywoman

Devar

replied on August 20th, 2007

New User

Maine3150,

Ask him for oral sex and more foreplay before you start after youve started intercource try and keep him paced men tend to speed up when they are about to come you could ask him to slow down or even jump on top and take control of the situation.

Devar

Jeaston77

replied on August 20th, 2007

New User

How old is he??? I was "one pump chump" (well not really I could go the average time 7 -8 minutes) until I was in my late 20's then something happened and now I can go as long or short as I want...Can't really get off on command like a porn star but I have a lot better control...

If you have a decent relationship with good communication you should be able to tell him what you need... Shocked

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