I have a few questions pertaining to phobias and their development.
1. Are phobias hereditary, or can a person's genetic make-up contribute to a phobia?
2. Can insufficient thyroid function be linked to particular phobias?
3. Can someone develop a phobia after having a nightmare about something (spiders, rain, cats, knives, etc.)?
4. Are certain people more prone to developing phobias?
5. Is it normal for a person to "lose" their common sense when in a situation involving an apparition of their phobia? (i.E., arachnophobia: someone thinking they will die a miserable death if touched by a harmless spider)
6. For those who believe in reincarnation, can a person's phobia be linked to an experience had in a past life?
7. Is it possible to overcome intense phobias through counseling, therapy, and/or hypnosis?
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You may laugh at this guys (trust me you wouldn't be the first), but I have a phobia of pregnancy, mainly getting pregnant. I'm 17, and I know most girls my age will get scared if they think they are pregnant, but is it to the point where they make themselves sick with stress to the point of nausea? Or crying for hours on end? Or staying stressed even though everyone and their mother can tell them they shouldn't be concerned?
(if you're wondering what I mean, see my posts in the "getting pregnant" forum).
The main reason why I fear sexual intercourse is a fear of becoming pregnant. Just knowing that there is always a chance of pregnancy each time a girl has intercourse is enough to scare me, even with all the contraceptive methods we have today.
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I want to overcome this fear...I want to marry my amazing boyfriend and be able to please him (after marriage mind you!), but I won't be able to if i'm too scared to have sex.
And also if you are at all curious, I asked about thyroid function being related to phobia development, because I believe I do have a thyroid problem, but I don't know if it can cause any sort of mental issues.
Any help on this would be sincerely and greatly appreciated.
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Scaredbaka - feels silly having such a phobia