I confess I saw your post asking if anyone was on, but given the different time zones I saw it like maybe 6 or 7 hours later - ok you may have still been there and I apologise if you were, but I felt it unlikely.
I don't reply to some posts because a) I don't know that persons story and may well give an opinion that has already been done or be taking the whole thing back a few steps. B) quite a few people have already replied and I have nothing else to add. C) I don't know anything useful about the topic. And also d) I often check my mail before I go to work and think about it while I am there.
I have to be incensed to give a reply, and sometimes I do wonder why people posts posts that are asking the same question as another post just a few threads down, would it be that hard sometimes to just have a look through what is already there. - when I read a post that I have already answered (sometimes in another post) I do feel kinda like "well look I already told ya my opinion on this and ya ignored it why should I answer it again".
My "spam" addy (if you email and I like ya
If I am on here then I will get my email within 10mins (thanks outlook express) with a little ding dong so I can't miss it and i'll be more than happy to just chat.
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maybe the one I saw before wasn't yours - i've just scrolled down as far as the one I now believe you are talking about.
But hey you've now got my addy so try me sometime.