Oh huni. I wasn't really upset. I mean, what I did was wrong. The only defense I have is that it didn’t start out that way. He and I were together for about a month after him and tessa broke up. She was preggy though, and didn’t know. When she found out….. He went back to her, but continued to see me. I just, I wanted you to know that not all girls are doing it to be vindictive to the girlfriend he has. I mean, I didn’t like tessa, but it was very, very unlike me to be with someone who had a woman. Much less a child. And over time it was “when tamara is born, i’ll leave him”…… but then she was born and I dind't leave him..... For 2 months I left him alone to be with his child.... But everytime I was "over" him, sometime or someone brought me back to him and we'd hook up again..... Sometimes I think it was meant to happen the way it did. Fate was for us..... Or so it seemed lol. Ya know. caca happens. But I am ok huni. I am not angry with you. I just…….I read it and was taken aback for a minute ya know! I’d never be the “other woman” again. It’s not my style!

Love you,
chanda

Okay good. As I said I have also done the same and it happens. It wasn't fair of me to stereotype like that, because you are right, not all women do it to be vindictive or to boost their self esteem. Sometimes it is just too darn hard to avoid. And I don't see myself or you as that example I gave, so it really wasn't fair, nor was it correct. So, I am sorry, and I am so glad that you aren't mad.

Oh no honey. I wasn't at all. I just was taken aback ya know!
Love you,
chanda

Awe I love seeing sisterhood:) its great

<3
marisa