Hello!

I just wanted to make a tip on how to help a relationship. Me and jose were great in the beggining, like a fairy tale. Then he moved with me a while ago and it got rocky. I loved him alot and we were both really into helping our relationship. The thing was he was a drinker and smoker. Hes cut to 2 cigaretts, so im so happy and the drinking is one beer on a friday, sat and sunday. We had to come to an agreement or it would have never worked out. But the thing was we needed communication bad. So we would lay down, hug and talk about everything. And it worked! Then we go on a date every weekend. To a movie, to dinner, to play golf, go to the swapmeet, the mall...Anything. That helps so much. Dates to me keep it working so I know how much I love spending all my time with him and know we are great company. Another thing, no matter how mad you are at the other, never hesitate to say I love you. I can be so mad at jose and he will hug me and say I love you. And ill be grumpy and say, I love you too. I think we say I love you on an average of 8 times a day. We go to pre-marital counceling too. To solve conflicts and communication skills. But I think those are the key things to help you relationship. The main thing is to listen to the other person. Give feedback and never put down their feelings.

Good luck to all of your relationships!!! Love is a wonderful thing!

"i have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving kindness" jeremiah 31:3