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Q: I Cant Do This Anymore!

asked by: Riversmommy on August 22nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I cant do this girls! I should b happy but im not raven doesnt have a job im busting my a$$ at work making jack crap I have to get plates for the car register on top of that pay for rivers daycare buy him diapers wipes liners im trying to get all 3 of us out of this situation and its not going anywhere we havent even budge im soo stress im sitting here bawling my eyes out I cant stop crying ravens mad at me bc I should be stronger but im not im weak I cant do this I really cant im faling apart im having an emotional break down girls I cant how am I supposed to work pay rivers day care and other things pay for my things car things go to school be a mommy and a girlfriend? Idk how I can thers not enough hours or money in a day to do these things I have fallen completely apart idk wat to do anymore.............

Replies(8)

smith8500

replied on August 22nd, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Huni! I talked to you today and you were fine! Oh lordy. I'll talk to you later and cheer you up! You know hwo it gets with the stress sometimes, but you are ok! You are doing good. And as for raven. Well hun, he needs to do more. He dosen't do near enough! Call me afta while. You are strong and you are going to make it, for yourself and river.

I love you,
chanda

sweetsuzi

replied on August 22nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I know it seems tough now but keep working hard and dont fall apart. It will come together in the end you will see. Ya know im here girl for u to talk too Wink

tweety12986

replied on August 22nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Aww jen u have made it this far and i'm sure that makes you strong in a lot of peoples eyes, you can only do soo much, dont worry things always pan out, just try and sit down and relax and you and raven try and make a buget plan or something... You have come too far to just say taht you are weak.
Meagan

babyrae

replied on August 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Awww jeni dont ever say ur weak!! Ur a very strong woman and ur trying ur very best to give river what he needs, and u should be very proud of what uve done! Raven should go out and get a job too and help support u two... I hope ur feelin better.. Hun u are a great person and a great mother! Dont ever let urself think otherwise!

Shauna

sparklypixie12

replied on August 23rd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Jen you are doing so well so never knock yourself for that-you are so much stronger then you think. I remember when you were pregnant with river & you were so worried about the future & now you're working, you plan to go back to school & you have your man & your lil boy. You're not the type to give up so I know you will keep going & I have a good feeling that things are really gonna get good for you-you just have to put your mind to it huni.You know we're all for you :d

angel4ever

replied on August 23rd, 2004

Experienced User

Jeni, I think u are soooo strong...Throughout all your hard times, u alwyas manage to have a smile on your face, and you are one of the nicest ppl here on this forum, alwyas helping all the other girls. Im soo sorry youre feeling overwhelmed, but I know u wont give up...And things will get better again, then worse, then better.....Like is so full of ups and downs, we just gotta learn to roll wit it....I wish I lived near you, i'd come babysit for free!! I hope u feel better soon.

newlife

replied on August 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Well, check this site out. It tells you how to budget.

Rentnet.Com/apartments/fyp/reading_room/bu dget/budgeting_rt_1.Jhtml

and, it raven it mad, let him be. I know how it feels to have the weight of the world on your shoulders. As for river's daycare, can't raven look after him since he is not working? And what state do you live in? I may be able to get you some info on extra money for daycare. Keep your head up.

hm_03

replied on August 23rd, 2004

Experienced User

Sorry to hear about your situation but like most of these girls said you are a strong person no matter how much you think you are not but you really are. I may not know you personally but I have read some of your post and you would do anything for your family. Your situation may be tough but don't give up because it always gets better believe me. Don't ever say that you are weak. Hopefully raven can get a job and maybe he should watch river while you work to make it a little easier at the same time he can look for a job.

Hang in there and have faith things will be ok

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