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PregnaJordan
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**update~i Went!...ahhhh! Goin Crazy
Posted: 08-22-04 13:29pm
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Ok well I wuz plannin on goin to chris's
an takin jaydyn but my mom is like in a
rage-shs soo pissed-she wants me 2 leave
jay here w/ her--but thats tha whole pt of
the visit! 4 him 2 c her 4 tha 1st
time....She wont even talk 2 me....I
really dont feel its her place 2 tell me
not 2 take my own child to see her
daddy...
Am I crazy?
Last edited by PregnaJordan on 08-23-04 08:30am; edited 1 time in total
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babyrae
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Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 08-22-04 13:33pm
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Ur not crazy! Ur just thinkin of your
daughter and giving her a chance to at
least get to know her father. Ur moms
prolly mad cuz shes scared of u gettin
hurt... But this is somethign u want to
do and it's good to see if he'll actually
smarten up and give him a chance to see
what hes straightening up his life for.
Dont worry, ur being very sane!
Shauna
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Michelle1337
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Joined: 04 Aug 2004
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Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 08-22-04 13:41pm
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Your not crazy...Your mom is...Although
perfectly understandable crazy. My mom
isnt gonna want me to take nathaniel to
see chris either.
How old old is she now?
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PregnaJordan
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Posts: 2908
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bd1012
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Posts: 1998
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Posted: 08-22-04 14:45pm
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2 months? Wow! It seems like just
yesterday you were talking about the
"stubborn baby" 
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 08-22-04 15:03pm
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Yea, you are a lil crazy. Lol. I
wouldn't be gone over yet. He dosent'
deserve it. Not yet at least. Not after
all he's done. I'm with nikki. I got $5
that you take him back! Hehe love ya
babe!
Love,
chanda
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI
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Posted: 08-22-04 16:23pm
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Nah u aint crazy. Thats his daughter
regardless of what he did to u... It is
ur baby and ur decision not ur moms dont
let others make decisions for u I hate
that caca lol. ~ erica.
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linuxChique
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Posted: 08-22-04 20:09pm
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I agree. Your mom is way out of line.
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KariM1804
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Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 08-22-04 21:29pm
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Hey u went through 9 months of pregnancy
and pain, u gave birth, ur the mother..
Tell her if she wants to decide what to do
with the child then she can have u a
little sister and raise her how she wants,
but this ones urs:)
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jessamyn
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Re: Ahhhh! Goin Crazy
Posted: 08-22-04 22:11pm
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I think shes just scared not crazy shes
just being worried mom
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linuxChique
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 08-22-04 22:42pm
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No actually im siding with your mom. I
mean shes there for you the whole
pregnancy right? And all of a sudden you
2 become close without chris and then you
talk about going to church and stuff and
after the baby chris comes in and your
already kinda jumpin at his call. I went
through the same exact thing with my sis.
I told you youd do that. U dont believe
me. And I was pissed and so was my mom.
Because you get this bond and then you
kill it by going back to him. Shes hurt
and mad.
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 08-23-04 08:25am
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I think she's just worried for you because
she knows what you went through with
chris. She's helped you out a lot &
now she probably thinks you'll go running
back to him-she's only mad because she
loves you & jaydyn & this is her
way of showing it. But you gotta do what
is best for you & jaydyn & that's
your decision to make
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angel4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004
Posts: 236
Location: New York
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Posted: 08-23-04 08:29am
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Jordan~ I think your mom is just angry
because she cares about you, and dosnt
want u to get hurt again. It seems like
you and your mom developed a very strong
bond during your pregnancy and so shes
very protective over u and jaydyn.
I understand that u are an adult now, and
jaydyn's mommy, so techincally nobody can
tell u what to do.
I would suggest u try to talk to your mom
and explain to her the reason why u want
to take jaydyn to see chris. Let her know
that you understand and appreciate her
concern, and aslo let her know that even
if chris is in yours and jaydyn's life, it
dosnt mean that her role in your lives
will be any less.
Also, stay strong, girl....Dont just go
running back to chris...Make him prove
that he is truly interested in taking
responsability as a father. I (and i'm
sure all the girls here) just dont want to
see u get hurt.
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-23-04 08:29am
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Well I went.....We had a nice time and he
does seem to b truly changed for the
better, but noone believes me and alli do
is hear negative remarks about it and its
making me really depressed, ive thrown up
three times andi cant eat...Its teh
biggest decision ive ever had to make and
I dont kno what to do. Honestly, I do
love him and care about him but I dont
want my mom to hate me....Ah just dont
know....
*very sad*
jordan
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 08-23-04 08:34am
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You love him?? I didn't know you loved
him! Is it that serious jordan? Are you
really going to get back with him when he
could hurt you again?
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-23-04 08:35am
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No, im always gonna love him b/c hes her
daddy andeverytime I see her, I see him.
Im not "inlove" with him. I do and I dont
wanna get back with him. Pffft. Y me?
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 08-23-04 08:38am
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Gosh this is one big dilema that you
have.What did he think of her? I can
understand your connection to him but you
you really honestly want to be with him
after all he's done? U gotta follow your
heart on this one though & make the
choice for you.Have u told ur mom?
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angel4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004
Posts: 236
Location: New York
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Posted: 08-23-04 08:39am
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Jordan~ I understand how u feel. Alot of
my friends dont like my bf...So even when
he does good things, they still pass off
negative comments.
If u truly feel that chris has changed and
would be a good father for jaydyn, then
fine. Thats a green light to *slowly*
let him back into your life. I cannot
stress how important it is to take things
slow!! Make him realllly prove that he
has changed. And I wouldnt suggest
running back to live with him or anything.
If he is worth it, he will wait until
youre ready to have him in your life
full-time again.
Also, keep the communication open with
your mom. Explain to her everything that
is going on. It may take her alot longer
to forgive him, because she cares about u
sooo much, but in time I really believe
everything will work itself out.
(im sorry youre sad, sweety)
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-23-04 08:46am
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Yea my mom knows,shes barely speaking to
me..Its awful....Ill write more later, I
haveto take jaydyn to the Dr. For her
shots and 2 mnth checkup
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