Ur not crazy! Ur just thinkin of your daughter and giving her a chance to at least get to know her father. Ur moms prolly mad cuz shes scared of u gettin hurt... But this is somethign u want to do and it's good to see if he'll actually smarten up and give him a chance to see what hes straightening up his life for. Dont worry, ur being very sane!

Shauna

Your not crazy...Your mom is...Although perfectly understandable crazy. My mom isnt gonna want me to take nathaniel to see chris either.

How old old is she now?

2 mnth

thanks yall

2 months? Wow! It seems like just yesterday you were talking about the "stubborn baby"

Yea, you are a lil crazy. Lol. I wouldn't be gone over yet. He dosent' deserve it. Not yet at least. Not after all he's done. I'm with nikki. I got $5 that you take him back! Hehe love ya babe!
Love,
chanda

Nah u aint crazy. Thats his daughter regardless of what he did to u... It is ur baby and ur decision not ur moms dont let others make decisions for u I hate that caca lol. ~ erica.

I agree. Your mom is way out of line.

Hey u went through 9 months of pregnancy and pain, u gave birth, ur the mother.. Tell her if she wants to decide what to do with the child then she can have u a little sister and raise her how she wants, but this ones urs:)

I think shes just scared not crazy shes just being worried mom

Or, grandmom!

No actually im siding with your mom. I mean shes there for you the whole pregnancy right? And all of a sudden you 2 become close without chris and then you talk about going to church and stuff and after the baby chris comes in and your already kinda jumpin at his call. I went through the same exact thing with my sis. I told you youd do that. U dont believe me. And I was pissed and so was my mom. Because you get this bond and then you kill it by going back to him. Shes hurt and mad.

I think she's just worried for you because she knows what you went through with chris. She's helped you out a lot & now she probably thinks you'll go running back to him-she's only mad because she loves you & jaydyn & this is her way of showing it. But you gotta do what is best for you & jaydyn & that's your decision to make

Jordan~ I think your mom is just angry because she cares about you, and dosnt want u to get hurt again. It seems like you and your mom developed a very strong bond during your pregnancy and so shes very protective over u and jaydyn.
I understand that u are an adult now, and jaydyn's mommy, so techincally nobody can tell u what to do.
I would suggest u try to talk to your mom and explain to her the reason why u want to take jaydyn to see chris. Let her know that you understand and appreciate her concern, and aslo let her know that even if chris is in yours and jaydyn's life, it dosnt mean that her role in your lives will be any less.
Also, stay strong, girl....Dont just go running back to chris...Make him prove that he is truly interested in taking responsability as a father. I (and i'm sure all the girls here) just dont want to see u get hurt.

Well I went.....We had a nice time and he does seem to b truly changed for the better, but noone believes me and alli do is hear negative remarks about it and its making me really depressed, ive thrown up three times andi cant eat...Its teh biggest decision ive ever had to make and I dont kno what to do. Honestly, I do love him and care about him but I dont want my mom to hate me....Ah just dont know....

*very sad*
jordan

You love him?? I didn't know you loved him! Is it that serious jordan? Are you really going to get back with him when he could hurt you again?

No, im always gonna love him b/c hes her daddy andeverytime I see her, I see him. Im not "inlove" with him. I do and I dont wanna get back with him. Pffft. Y me?

Gosh this is one big dilema that you have.What did he think of her? I can understand your connection to him but you you really honestly want to be with him after all he's done? U gotta follow your heart on this one though & make the choice for you.Have u told ur mom?

Jordan~ I understand how u feel. Alot of my friends dont like my bf...So even when he does good things, they still pass off negative comments.
If u truly feel that chris has changed and would be a good father for jaydyn, then fine. Thats a green light to *slowly* let him back into your life. I cannot stress how important it is to take things slow!! Make him realllly prove that he has changed. And I wouldnt suggest running back to live with him or anything. If he is worth it, he will wait until youre ready to have him in your life full-time again.
Also, keep the communication open with your mom. Explain to her everything that is going on. It may take her alot longer to forgive him, because she cares about u sooo much, but in time I really believe everything will work itself out.
(im sorry youre sad, sweety)

Yea my mom knows,shes barely speaking to me..Its awful....Ill write more later, I haveto take jaydyn to the Dr. For her shots and 2 mnth checkup