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Q: Dewitt Called
asked by: KissyBai912 on August 21st, 2004
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Hey you guys dewitt's mom called a little while ago. Dewitt busted his head open. Pffff. I laughed. He fine it wasnt even serious. But anyways, she said that she found out about some grant, that would supply 11,000 dollars a year to me and josh while dewitt is in college, and then dewitt has to pay it back when he gets out. It sounds like a load of crap to me, but I figured I would ask and see if anyone heard about it. She needs me to copy his birth certificate and fax it, and when I make a copy it says void all over it, but mom says dont because they can use that for anything, even ruin his credit before he is a year old. I don't see how, but I would rather be safe than sorry. So the only way I am faxing anything, is if it is directly to soem kind of grant office. But yeah dewitt got on the phone to say hi so I was civil, and then put some dude on the phone and he was like "how u feel about mah boy, u got feelings for him" and I told him if I didnt then I wouldnt have a son with him and be talking to him. And hes like "that boy wants to marry u" and im just like, thats nice, he kept calling me harsh and then I heard dewitts mom in the background ask him why he was crying. Such a wimp. I swear. But i'm not sure what I shoud do? Does anyone have any advice? Or know anything about this kind of grant? Because truthfully, I think they are full of crap but you never know. I would at least like to find out about it ya know? Any input?
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tweety12986
replied on August 21st, 2004
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I think dewitt gets the money for school I dont think you would get any money unless he felt like giving it... So yeah there are grants like that but only for him, and if u go to college u can get the same grant, it seems like its for him though.
Meagan
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smith8500
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Hey
I've never heard of that and I don't think it's true. I wouldn't send them a copy of anything. If anything, i'd send it to the department. As far as marrying you. Tell him as if!
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KissyBai912
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Yeah I know chanda. He has already ruined that. But he was sking if I had a boyfriend and I thought about sayin yeah. Lmao. Maybe I should tell him about how camerin spoent the night about a month and a half ago? Lmao! That would be grand! Meagan, she said it was supposed to be somekind of grant for josh because he was dewitts child and whatnot but like I siad, it sounds like a load of crap to me. But I stil want to check it out in the off chance that it might be true. Lol. 11,000 dollars would come in handy. I could get a decent used car to drive us around in! Lol!
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newlife
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Yea, as far as school goes, any grants that there are would go to him. And well, I say they are lying b/c if you were to get an $11,000 a year grant, he would not have to pay it back. A grant is free money, that never has to be repaid. I think that they just may want money for him to go to school. Ask them to send you the info on the program so that you can read it over, but don't send them anything. And as for josh's credit it is true. Parents and guardians can take out loans and get credit cards under their children's names.
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smith8500
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Exactly. A grant is free so he wouldn't have to pay it back... Hmmm I think he's lying
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babyrae
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Hmm ive never heard of that before... But I dont know if its different in the us... But I think it might be bull...
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KissyBai912
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Haha when she called back I pointed this out to her, and she was like I meant loan, and im like, if its a loan for brandon why do you need joshua's birth certificate? And shes like cuz brandon wants a copy. So I said why didnt he ask me them and she goes cuz he thinks ur mad at him. And im like I am but he needs to suck it up, be a man and talk to me anyways. And it old her that if he wanted a copy he could apply for one at the dept of vital statistics and pay 20 bucks like I did. She got all pissed off saying I was trying to take josh away from him and all this. She is so retarded. I was just like whatever and hung up. Lol. They get on my damn nerves. Lol.
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linuxChique
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Woo hoo! Way to go chrissy!
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KissyBai912
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Lol erin! It felt soooo good too. Right now I am on a mean streak. That freshman girl better watch out on monday! I might come home with an interesting story to tell you guys! Lol. I am just sick of people and their crap so I am going to start giving out a free kick in the ass for every dumb thing somebody says.
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babyrae
replied on August 21st, 2004
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Good job!!!!!! Dont put up wit anybodys sh*t!!!

Shauna
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smith8500
replied on August 22nd, 2004
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Yup! Good job! You don't need that caca in your life!
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on August 22nd, 2004
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All that dewitt needs is joshes social security number, and he can take out credit cards in his names, put bills in his name, and all that other fun stuff... Then when josh turns 18 he is so screwed... My dad tried to get ahold of my ssn but my mom did something to prevent it... Im not sure what though. Also, about the loans and grants, there are grants( that would not have to be paid back) that they give to young mothers(maybe young fathers too) that are pursuing an education to better their childs life, and of course there are loans for young mothers, just like there are loans for everyone else.... I think that dewitt and his mom heard about these loans and didnt do enough research to trick ya. From what they are saying, it sounds kinda messed up, but there are grants that you can get.
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KissyBai912
replied on August 22nd, 2004
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Yeah my mom was telling me about how I could get a grant to go to community college and do my medical assisting course because I am a single mother. I forget what it was called. But I know better than to give them his ssn. And the only way he can apply for a copy of it, is to go to the social security office and apply for it. But he has to know my ssn also, and he doesn't so he couldn't get a copy even if he wanted too. But I know his....Hehe I could mess up his credit, but I won't lol. I'm not that mean. They just think I am stupid or something. Like when they told me that he had the paternity papers notarized in june by his grandma. They came back and it wasn't done until july 12th by some lady that was not his grandma. Like I can't read or something. I swear they are retarded.
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linuxChique
replied on August 22nd, 2004
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Copy the birth certificate and blank out the ssn and tell them you haven't applied for one yet if they say anything about it.
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KissyBai912
replied on August 23rd, 2004
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Erin the ssn isnt on his borth certificate! Lol! I'm just bein mean about that....I dont think they could do anything with it but still, ya never know!
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linuxChique
replied on August 23rd, 2004
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Oh well then that wouldn't be nearly as fun!
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